IF my algorithm is anything to go by, Gen Z love nothing more than a bit of #selfcare because #selfcareisntselfish and #metime matters.
And as a semi-perennial singleton (and geriatric millennial), I don’t really have much say in the matter.
HappenOak Treehouse was a perfect remote location for a digital detoxCredit: SuppliedI made the drive to the pretty village of Balsham for my unique stay for the next 48 hoursCredit: Supplied
So it came to pass that, after booking a last-minute week off work, I went on my first ever romantic mini break for two — the “two” being me and my miniature Dachshund, Dora.
After scouring Instagram for options, my non-negotiables — as Gen Z like to say — were: Dog-friendly, remote, not a hotel and, ideally, with an outdoor roll-top bath.
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The plan was also to have a digital detox after my screen time had crept up to an abhorrent ten hours a day.
Enter HappenOak Treehouse. Yep, an actual treehouse in rural Cambridgeshire.
If I couldn’t shut off the world from a giant oak tree in the middle of nowhere, there really was no hope for me.
On a quiet Wednesday afternoon, I made the drive to the pretty village of Balsham for my unique stay for the next48 hours.
It took two and a half minutes of strolling through beautiful, signposted woodland for Dora and me to spot our arboreal home-from-home.
Tucked away in the delightful Le Creuset-stocked kitchen was a huge loaf and some homemade banana bread. A nice touch.
It’s hard to explain just how magical this bath felt – I could have stayed in there foreverCredit: SuppliedHappenOak Treehouse is an actual treehouse in rural CambridgeshireCredit: Supplied
The highlight, though, was the location. I quickly decided to ditch my iPhone and go for a sunset stroll.
As a tractor ploughed its patch, and birds tweeted, I felt my shoulders drop.
That evening I did some yoga on the decking, and then ran a piping hot bath. It’s hard to explain just how magical this bath felt.
But soaking in bubbles, as fairy lights twinkled and the branches swayed above, I could have stayed in there forever. Well, an hour or so.
Instead, draping myself in one of the fluffy white robes provided, I opted for the outdoor, Finnish-style sauna, managing to last about six minutes before, dripping in sweat, I came out again to cool down.
It is the kind of treat I steadfastly ignore at my gym, insisting I never have time. Here, however, I had all the time.
After, Dora and I decided the best move was to cuddle up in the giant swing chair, watching the world (and the hard-working farmer still on his tractor) go by. No phones, no TikTok, no WhatsApp, no Spotify, no nothing. It was bliss.
That night, I slept like a well-rested baby, waking beneath two skylights showing gently falling leaves.
The dog-friendly location was a perfect holiday retreat for Clemmie and pet DoraCredit: SuppliedHappenOak is the perfect getaway for those who need to, well, get awayCredit: Supplied
After breakfasting on homemade muesli provided by the owners — supplies like coffee, milk, olive oil, free-range eggs and seasoning are all included, and there is a farm shop a few miles away for anything else — it was time for a hike.
A gorgeous 12km round trip took me via gastropub The Black Bull, where we nipped in for a replenishing pint and a bowl of water.
Then it was off to the local shop for some pasta and cheese for an easy dinner.
I’d been so bowled over by my stay that by the evening I found myself hunting for homes in rural Cambridgeshire online, with grand visions of handing in my notice and starting a new life off-grid, in a tree.
My sleep on the second night was slightly restless, which I put down to slightly “flat” pillows. Literally my only complaint of the entire stay.
Otherwise, HappenOak is the perfect getaway for those who need to, well, get away.
In a world that runs at 100mph, it is a place to simply switch off. Who knew? #selfcare isn’t actually selfish.
GO: Balsham, Cambs
STAYING THERE: The two-person HappenOak Treehouse costs £310 a night, with a minimum two-night stay, taken between Sunday and Thursday from November to March.
Single nights (when available) cost £375.
Book for three nights or more and a ten per cent discount will automatically be added. See coolstays.com.
DO YOU think camping is just for summer? Think again.
With the help of Pitchup.com, we’ve put together a list of the 10 best campsites for the autumn with on-site saunas, spas, and even lodges with central heating.
Herding Hill Farm has cosy lodges to wrap up warm insideCredit: UnknownThe pods at Wighill Park Glamping have small kitchenettes, bedroom and living areaCredit: Pitch Up
Wighill Park Glamping, West Yorkshire
When it’s dark and gloomy, some of us would rather not sleep in a flimsy tent, and at Wighill Park Glampingare some super cosy camping spots.
Campers can shelter from the elements inside the individual wooden pods.
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The smallest sleep up to two people but still have all the essentials like a little kitchenette, sofa, bed and its own toilet and shower room.
For a little extra, you can opt a hot drink pack, fireside kit and even a bottle of gin and a bottle of tonic.
Some of the larger pods even have their own hot tubs and can sleep up to five people.
The farm is part of Wighill Park, once a private cricket pitch for Lord Hawke (a well-known figure in the world of cricket). Its woodland trails are perfect for an autumn walk, and dogs are welcome too.
If you’re after some exploring further afield, the campsite is a 25-minute drive away from York and under 40 minutes from Leeds and Harrogate.
Rates start from £85 per person per night.
Moddershall Oaks Country Spa Retreat, Stafford
Moddershall Oaks has an on-site spa with heated loungers and poolsCredit: Pitch Up
If you really want to take your camping holiday to the next level, how about a retreat with an on-site spa?
But when the Great British weather inevitably turns, huddle inside the spa, gym, restaurant and bar.
At the spa are swimming pools, a steam room, hydrotherapy pool, heated tiled loungers, experience showers and a relaxation lounge.
When it comes to the pods, these sleep from two up to four with large beds, black-out curtains, air conditioning and an ensuite with a rainfall shower.
There are luxury toiletries, a flatscreen TV, mini-fridge, GHD hair dryer and tea and coffee also inside.
Guests staying in the pods get complimentary gym access during their stay as well as breakfast which is in the adjoining Oak House restaurant (spa and exercise classes are charged separately).
Rates start from £150 for two people per night.
Whitehouse Farm, Suffolk
Whitehouse Farm in Suffolk has pretty lakeside sauna podCredit: Pitch Up
Tucked away in Suffolk is Whitehouse Farm, a campsite perfect for anyone who is after a quiet and peaceful retreat.
On the campsite are cosy shepherd’s huts which come with snug double beds, a kitchenette, small dining area – some also come with firepits and barbecues.
Or for those who have their own motorhome, simply book the pitch.
Pitches are either in the meadow, or the old orchard where there are fruits like damsons, apples and pears in early autumn.
For those on a family trip, there’s an outdoor climbing frame for children who don’t mind the weather.
And on the campsite, dogs are welcome too as long as they’re kept on a lead.
During the cooler evenings, adults can take advantage of the on-site sauna which is a new addition and sits above the pond.
Rates start from £30 for two people per night.
North End Farm, Dorset
The lodge at North End Farm even has central heatingCredit: Unknown
Down in rural Dorset is North End Farm which is close to beaches and local pubs.
There are three spots available to book, a cosy stay called the North End Cabin which sleeps two people.
The Potting Shed cabin has lake views and also sleeps two people, then there’s the Old Cricket Pavilion lodge which has two bedrooms, a TV and most importantly for winter, central heating.
The site is dog-friendly with plenty of walking trails and there are three lakes suitable for swimming.
There’s a hot outdoor shower on the lakeside so anyone brave enough to get into the water can warm up afterwards.
Slightly unusual additions include the chance to go paragliding as the owner owns a paragliding company. It’s also possible to organise clay pigeon shooting and fishing trips.
For a pub lunch and a trip, the farm shop is a five minute drive away and the Jurassic Coast beach at Seatown is two miles away.
Rates start from £160 per two people for two nights.
Woodside Country Park, Herefordshire
The brave ones can take a cold dip in the lake at Woodside Country ParkCredit: Unknown
For long walks in the Malvern Hills National Park on a campsite which has wild water swimming and fishing, head to Woodside Country Park.
The campsite is in amongst 28 acres of landscaped grounds with lots of chances to see birds and wildlife.
Campers can choose to stay on a non-electric or electric pitch in a tent either on the ground of a rooftop tent, to a caravan, campervan or motorhome.
There’s also a choice of camping pods which sleep up to five people and while they don’t have any facilities, it will will be cosy.
When it comes to activities, a lakeside wood-fired sauna is available for private hire or public sessions.
Or head out on one of its many trails, including a fairy door trail for children.
For the adults, a 15-minute walk along the Herefordshire Trail leads to a vineyard and winery which holds both guided and self-guided tours and tastings.
Rates start from £29 per two people for two nights.
Andark Lake, Southampton
Andark Lake is centred around a purpose built scuba diving lakeCredit: Pitch Up
Any campers who actually enjoy the darker days and don’t want to compromise when it comes to activities should head to Andark Lake.
Six miles outside of Southampton, the campsite is centred around a lake – which is purpose-built for scuba diving.
It holds pre-booked training courses, recreational dives, kit hire and air fills for certified divers.
Other facilities include its lakeside sauna which is perfect for a warm up after a cold lake plunge.
There are open-water swims at the weekend (for an extra £7 charge) and nearby at Swanwick Marina, visitors can try their hand at sailing, paddleboarding, kitesurfing and windsurfing.
The on-site café serves snacks, light lunches as well as hot and cold drinks throughout the day.
For a more hearty meal, there are three pubs within walking distance.
Rates start from £25 per two people per night.
Wildswim2sauna, Devon
Saunas can be hired out after a cold swim at this South Devon campsiteCredit: Pitch Up
After a secluded no-frills campsite with wild water swimming right on your doorstep? Wildswim2sauna is an option for autumn.
The campsite in South Devon is open year-round and is very much an off-grid site.
There are non-electric grass tent pitches or non-electric grass touring pitches – and make sure to take supplies as well as the site has no showers.
What it does have however is a river right on your doorstep for wild swimming or chilly cold plunges.
There are also hot tubs and a sauna which can be hired for warming up after a swim.
Within the site, it’s possible to organise mackerel fishing trips, sea swims and coastal cruises in and around Salcombe.
One visitor wrote in their review: “Amazing beautiful and remote location, incredible swimming right by our tent. So peaceful waking up to the birdsong and rustling of animals on the river.”
Rates start from £40 per two people per night.
Lunga Pier and Shore Camping, Argyll
For cold swims and wildlife spotting head to ArgyllCredit: Pitch Up
For a taste of adventure, head to Lunga Pier and Shore Camping in Argyll – it’s a remote spot and even quieter in the off-season.
The campsite sits on the Craignish Peninsula in western Scotland, with impressive coastal views that reach the Corryvreckan Channel.
Thanks to its location by the water, the site is ideal for wild swimmers, paddleboarders, anglers and kayakers.
There are also rugged coves and nearby islands to explore – just don’t forget your wetsuit.
Visitors have seen wildlife such as otters playing in the sea and you’re also likely to see seals, hares, herons and curlews.
Campers have also praised the site for its incredible pitch views across the water.
The village of Ardfern, with a shop, restaurant and pub, is ten minutes’ drive away.
Rates start from £28.88 per two people per night.
Herding Hill Farm and Caravan Camping Site, Northumberland
The clear skies at Herding Farm Hill make it ideal for stargazingCredit: Pitch Up
While most dislike the early nights of autumn and winter, it’s the perfect time for stargazing.
The on-site petting farm will prove popular with the kids who are welcome to help with the twice-daily feeding of the animals.
Children can also make use of the playground and ball field behind the cabins.
Pitches vary from electric hardstanding for tents, caravans and campervans. It also has pods which have raised beds and mattresses – some also have private hot tubs.
Other things to do include seeing Hadrian’s Wall which is half-a-mile away and the market town of Haltwhistle is a five-minute drive away.
There’s a camping kitchen with vending machines and the accessible shower block has underfloor heating so it’ll be warm even in the winter.
Along with the stargazing kits, firepits and barbecues all available to hire too. Rates start from £30 for two people per night.
Wassell Grove Camping and Caravanning, West Midlands
Wassell Grove campsite has three fishing lakes and an on-site cafe serving hot mealsCredit: Pitch Up
For those who aren’t into fishing, the nearby woodland is lovely for an autumn stroll.
Not to mention both Cadbury World and West Midland Safari Park are under half an hour away.
Kids will love the woolly addition to the campsite, the friendly alpacas which campers can feed with food bought from the café.
The on-site café also serves hot and cold food throughout the day for guests, or for those who decide to embrace the chill, there’s the option to fire up the barbecue instead.
If you fancy a cosy stay not in a tent, the campsite has pods that sleep up to three people and cabins which are basic but will keep the chill away.
The cabins have an outdoor picnic table and a kettle.