I’ve had death threats & years of hell for falling in love with Eamonn, says Katie Alexander as she speaks about misery
TV PRESENTER Eamonn Holmes’s lover received death threats and felt suicidal after enduring two-and-a-half years of hell for “simply falling in love”, she has revealed.
Katie Alexander sobbed to a friend about her misery — saying she feels that the stress in her life, including Eamonn’s illness, has led to her suffering a breakdown.
Police are investigating malicious emails and letters delivered to her, including a threat sent to her home saying she would be decapitated.
Katie, 45, who has been in a relationship with the breakfast TV presenter, 66, since his split from Ruth Langsford in 2024, spoke to pals about her ongoing ordeal.
She told a friend: “I fell in love with a man who made me feel safe, who encouraged me to be myself, and who loved and accepted me for me.
“I was thrust into the limelight and suddenly blamed for everything that went wrong with Eamonn.
“I became the accused — and a talking point for the nation.
“I was advised to say nothing, even though I wanted to defend myself, to tell my truth. I decided to protect others before putting myself first. I was being judged simply for falling in love.
“I had death threats sent to my work email, and letters to my home address threatening to decapitate me. Not only was I trying to protect myself, I had to protect my children from online abuse, and from being picked on at school.
“It has been two-and-a-half years of pure hell. It became too much to endure. I reached the point where I thought the quickest way out of it all was to kill myself.
“I had a breakdown. It’s my children who have kept me alive.”
Katie, a trained counsellor from West Yorkshire, added to her pal: “I hold people’s emotions for a living.
“Knowing what was the truth in my own life — so different to what was being portrayed publicly — was torture. The attacks were very personal.
“People can’t fathom I like older men. I have a history of relationships with men older than me.
“People thought, ‘she must be with Eamonn for his money’. That’s such an untrue, one-dimensional reaction.
“I had a happy life before Eamonn, but suddenly being with him made me happy and content. I never asked for a penny, but he wanted to make sure that I was comfortable financially. He made sure I didn’t have to worry about money. It was his choice, his doing.
“I refused his generosity so many times. It even got to the point where I’d stop him paying £15.99 for a film on TV, making him wait until it became free to watch.
“Despite being so far apart geographically, we lived together half of the week. We made it work. He was — and still is — my partner. And when we were together we did everything together.
“I gave him a sense of worth. He became softer after years of antagonism. He spoke of his feelings in more depth. I told him that if he can’t communicate with me we can’t be together. It seemed alien to him to be able to have a conversation and not an argument, or shouting match, even if we disagreed.”
The Sun on Sunday previously told how Katie had to move her belongings out of Eamonn’s flat in Surrey. He has been in hospital since suffering a stroke in April.
Financial help has dried up, including repayments on a Mercedes car bought by Eamonn so Katie could travel to visit him.
A close friend of Katie added: “She’s had a breakdown with all the stress that has come with trying to keep a family together and juggling work, while trying to care for Eamonn in hospital 230 miles away. There is so much that has gone on which will come out one day, and everyone will learn the truth.
“It suits a lot of people that Katie be painted as the ‘Wicked Witch’. But the reality is so different.”
The pair started dating in May 2024 and within a few months Katie moved into Eamonn’s home.
Eamonn wed fellow former ITV This Morning host Ruth in 2010 but the pair have been going through a divorce since they split in 2024.
West Yorkshire Police confirmed a probe into “offensive” letters, but said “no suspect has been identified”. Katie was asked for comment.
