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Lisa Hayden-Johnson was jailed after fabricating her son Matthew’s illnesses

Lisa Hayden-Johnson has defended her actions in a new Channel 4 documentary.

The Devon woman has spoken out for the first time since being released from prison. She was jailed in 2010 for three years and three months after admitting cruelty and perverting the course of justice.

It came after she falsely claimed that her son Matthew suffered from a range of illnesses including diabetes, food allergies, cerebral palsy and cystic fibrosis.

Matthew’s supposed health battle attracted widespread media attention. The youngster went on to appear on various TV shows and was famously introduced to the Duchess of Cornwall, now Queen Camilla.

The young boy, now aged 25, was also subjected to medical interventions before doctors grew suspicious about his alleged health problems. Now, both mother and son are telling their sides of the story in new Channel 4 three-part series, Love You to Death.

A synopsis for the show states: “Young Matthew’s health problems worry medics and his mum Lisa. But when doctors’ efforts to improve Matthew’s condition don’t work, suspicions are raised and the police are called in to investigate.”

In the first episode, which aired on Wednesday (August 19), Lisa refutes the infamous ‘most evil mum’ title she earned as a result of the story.

She says: “I’ve never had the opportunity to [tell her story]. The newspaper articles are so incorrect. How can I be ‘Britain’s Most Evil Mother?'”

She goes on to add: “The only thing I was guilty of was putting my son first and fighting his battle, which is what I did. And I don’t regret that.”

Matthew, who will feature in the second episode of the series, spoke to the BBC about how it felt to hear his mother’s perspective.

He said: “It was a lot of disappointment but I think also frustration as almost two decades on, there is still a lack of accountability from her side.

“When I could see, even after two decades… she still holds the same story and believes that she did the best by me… that obviously isn’t right.” Matthew’s older sister, Laura, also speaks out in the documentary.

Love You To Death Episode 1 is streaming now on Channel 4

A POLL of 2,000 adults found New Zealand, Japan and Australia were the locations the older generation most wished to visit but had never been to.

While Canada, the Maldives and Iceland also feature in the top 10 destinations which remain on bucket lists.

Taking spontaneous trips without overthinking it (21 per cent), going to bucket list destinations (17 per cent) and saying ‘yes’ to adventures rather than prioritising work (14 per cent) are also things over 50s wish they had experienced more.

But it’s not just older people who have travel pangs, with 42 per cent of Gen Z and 47 per cent of Millennials also wishing they had been able to travel more than they have so far.

While seeing the Northern lights tops the once-in-a-lifetime travel experiences they most want to have (41 per cent of Gen Z and 42 per cent of Millennials).

It also emerged 71 per cent of all adults polled are adamant it is never too late to make up for lost time, and many believe seeing new places (37 per cent) or experiencing natural phenomena (18 per cent) will positively impact their lives.

The study was commissioned by Icelandair, which has launched a competition to giveaway tickets to see the next solar eclipse in Iceland – in 170 years – as well as a visit to see the country in September, in a bid to cancel out regrets and reduce FOMO.

A spokesperson for the airline said: “Travel has never been more accessible, but our research shows once-in-a-lifetime experiences still sit firmly on people’s bucket lists and too many never get ticked off, leaving them with regrets about the things they didn’t do.

“We wanted to turn that idea on its head and encourage people to stop putting unforgettable experiences off and go live them.

“And if you’re going to think big, why not think really big? That’s why we’re giving someone the chance to experience the next total solar eclipse visible from Iceland — even though it won’t happen for another 170 years.

“With many often waiting for the right time, it’s a reminder some experiences are worth making happen — whether that’s this year, next year, or something you pass down for generations to come because you never know what might be on the bucket list of your future great-great-grandchildren, or give them the chance to say, ‘I was there.’”

For all adults, a lack of financial security was the top barrier to achieving their travel goals (44 per cent), followed by family responsibilities (24 per cent) and having other priorities that get in the way (22 per cent).

While 19 per cent admitted they are always waiting for the ‘right time’, with this rising to 31 per cent of Gen Zs.

The study, carried out via OnePoll, found the average adult reckons they’ll experience five truly once-in-a-lifetime moments.

But many hope this will increase for their grandchildren’s generation, with 47 per cent hopeful they’ll be able to make the most of life, while 38 per cent want them to enjoy the natural world more.

The spokesperson for Icelandair added: “Travel gives us a great opportunity for lifetime experiences and this week’s eclipse is the perfect reminder to start making those plans.”

TOP BUCKET LIST DESTINATIONS FOR OVER 50S:
1. New Zealand
2. Japan
3. Australia
4. Canada
5. Maldives
6. Iceland
7. Norway
8. Italy
9. Egypt
10. Vietnam

TOP 20 THINGS OVER 50S WISH THEY HAD EXPERIENCED:
1. Travelled more
2. Saved more money
3. Not lost touch with friends
4. Not worried too much about what others think
5. Make the most of life
6. Looked after their health
7. Made the most of their youth
8. Spent enough time with loved ones before they passed away
9. Learned a second language
10. Exercised more
11. Learned to play an instrument
12. Said how they really felt more often
13. Spent enough time with family
14. Taken spontaneous trips without overthinking it
15. Gained more qualifications
16. Not stayed in an unhappy job for too long
17. Been more spontaneous generally
18. Travelled to bucket list destinations
19. Not worked too much
20. Taken more risks

Research suggests the biggest regret among over-50s is not travelling more, with many still having bucket-list destinations they want to tick off.

A poll of 2,000 adults found New Zealand, Japan and Australia were the locations the older generation most wished to visit but had never been to. Canada, the Maldives and Iceland also feature in the top 10 destinations which remain on bucket lists. Taking spontaneous trips without overthinking it (21%), going to bucket list destinations (17%) and saying ‘yes’ to adventures rather than prioritising work (14%) are also things over 50s wish they had experienced more.

But it’s not just older people who have wanderlust, with 42% of Gen Z and 47% of Millennials also wishing they had been able to travel more than they have so far.

Seeing the Northern lights tops the once-in-a-lifetime travel experiences they most want to have (41% of Gen Z and 42% of Millennials).

It also emerged 71% of all adults polled are adamant it is never too late to make up for lost time, and many believe seeing new places (37%) or experiencing natural phenomena (18%) will positively impact their lives.

The study was commissioned by Icelandair, which has launched a competition to giveaway tickets to see the next solar eclipse in Iceland – in 170 years – as well as a visit to see the country in September, in a bid to reduce FOMO.

A spokesperson for the airline said: “Travel has never been more accessible, but our research shows once-in-a-lifetime experiences still sit firmly on people’s bucket lists and too many never get ticked off, leaving them with regrets about the things they didn’t do.

“We wanted to turn that idea on its head and encourage people to stop putting unforgettable experiences off and go live them.

“And if you’re going to think big, why not think really big? That’s why we’re giving someone the chance to experience the next total solar eclipse visible from Iceland — even though it won’t happen for another 170 years.

“With many often waiting for the right time, it’s a reminder some experiences are worth making happen — whether that’s this year, next year, or something you pass down for generations to come because you never know what might be on the bucket list of your future great-great-grandchildren, or give them the chance to say, ‘I was there.’”

For all adults, the top barrier to achieving their travel goals was lack of financial security (44%), followed by family responsibilities (24%) and having other priorities that get in the way (22%). A further 19% admitted they are always waiting for the ‘right time’, with this rising to 31% of Gen Zs.

The study, carried out via OnePoll, found the average adult predicts they’ll experience five truly once-in-a-lifetime moments. But many hope this will increase for their grandchildren’s generation, with 47% hopeful they’ll be able to make the most of life, while 38% want them to go out and enjoy the natural world more.

The spokesperson for Icelandair added: “Travel gives us a great opportunity for lifetime experiences and this week’s eclipse is the perfect reminder to start making those plans.”

Top bucket list destinations for over 50s

1. New Zealand
2. Japan
3. Australia
4. Canada
5. Maldives
6. Iceland
7. Norway
8. Italy
9. Egypt
10. Vietnam

Top 20 things over 50s wish they had experienced

1. Travelled more
2. Saved more money
3. Not lost touch with friends
4. Not worried too much about what others think
5. Make the most of life
6. Looked after their health
7. Made the most of their youth
8. Spent enough time with loved ones before they passed away
9. Learned a second language
10. Exercised more
11. Learned to play an instrument
12. Said how they really felt more often
13. Spent enough time with family
14. Taken spontaneous trips without overthinking it
15. Gained more qualifications
16. Not stayed in an unhappy job for too long
17. Been more spontaneous generally
18. Travelled to bucket list destinations
19. Not worked too much
20. Taken more risks

Perez Hilton’s family has revealed that his children were home when his mental health crisis began to unfold, and now they’re asking the media for space so the family can safely return home.

In a statement published on the celebrity blogger’s website on Thursday, Hilton’s family said the events of the last several days had been “nearly unbearable.”

“Just minutes before the public livestream incident, Perez’s children, niece, and sister were inside the home,” the statement read. “When it became clear that Perez was experiencing a severe mental health crisis and harming himself, they immediately fled to protect the children from witnessing any further trauma.”

On Tuesday night, Miami police responded to an influx of calls after a disturbing video was livestreamed on TikTok in which a bloodied Hilton harmed himself repeatedly with a box cutter and knife. Frightened fans and moderators from the social platform were among those who called authorities.

After surrounding Hilton’s Miami residence, the Miami-Dade Sheriff’s Office said around 9 p.m. that he had been “safely recovered and transported by Miami-Dade Fire Rescue to a local hospital, where he is receiving medical attention.”

In the family’s statement on Thursday, they said that their highest priority right now was helping Hilton’s three children and niece “begin to heal from what they experienced.”

“An important part of that process is allowing them to safely return home and begin rebuilding a sense of security and normalcy,” the statement continued. “For the children’s safety, privacy, and well-being, we respectfully ask members of the media, paparazzi, content creators, and the public to leave the area surrounding the family’s home and not return. Please allow his children the privacy and space they need during this unimaginably difficult time.”

Hilton’s family also shared that, although very little information on Perez’s condition has been provided to them, they had been able to confirm that he “is able to communicate,” which they say has given them hope during “this heartbreaking time.”

Earlier Thursday, conservative political commentator Sean Hannity released an episode featuring Hilton that was recorded in recent weeks. During the “Hang Out” podcast episode, Hilton expressed regret over disparaging attacks he made on the celebrities he covered over the course of his career.

“I have a lot of regrets,” he told Hannity. “Attention is like a drug, and I was definitely an attention addict back then. I mean, I still am, but I think now I do a better job of keeping it in check. And when you’re an addict, you don’t care if you’re hurting people.”

The “OG influencer” said that he attempted to make amends with some of the celebrities he targeted, including Britney Spears and Khloé Kardashian, whom he said were receptive to his apologies. He also privately approached Neil Patrick Harris to apologize for aggressively trying to out him as a gay man in 2006, before the actor had spoken about his sexuality publicly. Harris also accepted the mea culpa.

Hilton said that he had changed his ways. “I realized what I was doing was wrong — that I could still be fun — but I don’t have to be so cheap, and I don’t have to be so cruel. It was cruel, and it’s something that I carry with me.

“It’s like my scarlet letter, and it’s very heavy baggage.”

In March, Hilton was hospitalized for severe sepsis for 21 days. During the ordeal, he said that God presented himself to him. Perez claimed that he’d changed dramatically since the health scare. In recent months, he’s posted about the Bible, launched a religious merch line and spoken about his religious awakening on the podcast circuit.