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A woman who moved to Valencia in June 2024 has shared the unexpected discovery about Spanish city life that ‘no one ever warns you about’ – but she insists it’s not necessarily a bad thing

An expat has shared the unexpected discovery she made after moving to Spain that “no one ever warns you about”, completely transforming her preconceptions of living overseas. The woman, who moved to Valencia in June 2024, has described how the actual experience fell somewhat short of her mental picture of a perpetually lively, thriving Spanish metropolis – though she insists it’s not entirely negative.

Sharing on TikTok under the handle @togethertowherever, she detailed how she was initially taken aback to discover substantial portions of the city appearing deserted during particular periods. She stated: “Valencia in August: one minute it’s buzzing… the next it’s a ghost town. Locals disappear, shops close, and suddenly you’ve got the whole city to yourself (and the tourists).”

The expat continued by clarifying that the scorching weather in Spain is a significant factor, with temperatures climbing so dramatically throughout the summer that numerous residents abandon the city entirely.

Valencia generally starts warming from approximately May, when temperatures sit around 23C on average.

This subsequently increases during early summer, hitting roughly 27C in June, before reaching its peak at about 29C throughout July and August.

After summer, temperatures steadily decline once more, with conditions becoming markedly cooler during autumn.

Throughout the winter period, from approximately November through April, the climate typically stabilises between about 19C and 14C, creating a considerably cooler yet still reasonably temperate environment when compared to numerous other European destinations.

She continued: “I just thought of something that was shocking to me when I first moved to Spain.

“I remember walking around thinking it was so quiet here. I thought I moved to a vibrant, energetic country and culture. I was walking around and realised the streets were really dead.

“As the summer starts and school is out, people start leaving town because it gets so hot and humid here. Slowly, starting in June, every day I notice more and more, the streets are quieter.

“In August, I notice tourists around and then September came about and everyone was back and it lively again and I was like, ‘Okay, that’s what I thought it was going to be like’.”

Baffled by this seasonal transformation, she questioned: “Anyone else feel that post-school exodus energy?”

Her clip generated discussion online, with one viewer responding: “Oh interesting because in winter it was busy!”

Someone else sought guidance, posting: “What area would you recommend for a family with kids of school age? Ideally we would love to live closer to school, we are starting the moving process for next summer and I’m so confused.”

The content creator answered: “There are lots of public schools as well as concertados. The international schools are the ones out of town a bit. I think on either side of Turia Gardens is great for families.”

American travel enthusiast Kalani made his way over to Spanish holiday hotspot Benidorm for the first time, and went on to share his honest opinions, including one thing that left him confused

The Spanish coastal city of Benidorm has long been a favourite among British holidaymakers looking to enjoy some sunshine and relax on holiday. But one American was shocked when he visited the Spanish city for the first time by just how much influence the influx of British visitors has had on the destination.

British pubs and chippies aren’t a common sight in Spain, nor is a Full English being served in every café – but they can be found all over the famous strip in Benidorm, making Brits feel like they’re in a home away from home, just with much better weather. To experience it for himself, American travel enthusiast Kalani, who has visited the UK several times, decided to head to Benidorm after having been told about it from British friends.

Taking to TikTok, where he has more than 3.3 million followers, Kalani documented his time in Benidorm and everything it had to offer. At the end, he went on to share his honest thoughts about his holiday, also revealing that there were some things that had left him confused.

Starting off by saying that a lot of people had also warned him against visiting Benidorm, describing it as ‘like Blackpool with more sun’, Kalani said he agreed the famous Strip matched this description, but argued the city also has so much more to offer.

“For me, I could probably only do about one night on the Strip, it’s just too much for me,” he said. “That’s not really my scene anyway.”

However, he added anyone who does enjoy that sort of experience should definitely give it a go. He went on to say that his highlight had been exploring the Old Town of Benidorm.

“Really good views, and then they have Tapas Alley, which we went to last night and you can get authentic Spanish food,” he said. “It’s a really cool atmosphere.

“And if you’re looking to have a little bit more Spanish culture and not just going to Benidorm strip and having a fry up every day, it’s a good spot to go.”

The American went on to say that, while he understood why some people might have urged him to avoid Benidorm, he wondered if these people had visited Old Town, saying this was the highlight of his holiday. He said: “You can experience a part of Benidorm that isn’t as in-your-face as the Strip.”

However, Kalani also revealed that there were some parts of his visit to Benidorm that had left him confused, including repeatedly being asked about ‘Charlie’.

“I need someone to tell me about who Charlie is,” Kalani said, explaining that several people had asked him if he wanted ‘Charlie’ after exploring the Strip one night. Viewers were soon quick to tell him that Charlie is a common nickname for cocaine.

He also explained the various ‘weird‘ things he had spotted on the Strip, including a vending machine with a variety of ‘pleasure products’, a drunk woman driving a mobility scooter with a man holding on behind her, as well as the famous Sticky show.

“But you know what, I’m having a great time,” Kalani said. “I think it’s really beautiful, great views. The other part of Benidorm, I’d have to do in very small doses.”