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WE’VE taken a look at how to spend a family day out for FREE across multiple locations in the UK.

We’ve pinpointed three UK counties brimming with free activities for all ages, ensuring everyone stays entertained without spending a single penny.

And with activities covered for all ages, you can be sure there’ll be no getting bored.

Sussex: Beach days, railways and pirate festival

Across Sussex there are plenty of free things to do, meaning that you can take the kids out for an action-packed day of activities without breaking the bank.

If you’re visiting when the sun’s out, head to one of the many beautiful beaches in the county.

Camber Sands is perfect for families with its sprawling stretches of golden sands, perfect for bucket and spade days and paddling in the water.

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It’s a top choice due to its nearby facilities including parking, cafes and loos – perfect for parents of young children.

A sunny day is also the perfect time to go for a family bike ride.

The South Coast East route will take you along the coast, past stunning cliffs and landscapes.

And if the children (or Dad) are into steam trains, there’s multiple ways to enjoy them in Sussex – without booking a pricey ticket.

The Bluebell Railway is a great spot to visit, with its interactive “SteamWorks” exhibition at Sheffield Park station, and its own outdoor playground at Kingscote station.

There is no charge for platform entry on non-service days, and the gifts and models shop often remains open on these days too – just check their website ahead of time.

You can also head to Hotham Park, a short walk from Bognor Regis town centre, where there’s a popular miniature railway.

The park is free to enter if you’re wanting to stroll and have a look around.

But there’s loads to see and do for an optional small fee, such as crazy golf, a boating lake and kids’ adventure play area.

And if you do visit with some change in your pocket, the Hotham Park Railway is only £2.50 for adults and £2 for kids (under 2s go free).

Sun reader Nora Hinds, 69, from Hounslow, recommends Hastings in Sussex for its annual Pirate Festival.

She said: “Hastings is brilliant for live music, with lots of events on the seafront like the pirate festival.

It’s a pirate-themed weekend with free things to do including a treasure hunt, craft workshops and kids pirate tattoos.

Lastly, Sussex is home to some fantastic free museums.

The Shipwreck Museum is free to enter, and is full of fascinating maritime artifacts.

Sue Mercer, 62, from Pagham recommends The Novium Museum in Chichester for families.

It also has free entry, and kids can learn about history covering the Stone Ages to the Saxons.

Lincoln: Horse sanctuary, lakeside picnics and history museums

There’s loads of free and cheap things to do for families in Lincolnshire.

So much so, that there’s a Facebook group with more than 15,000 members sharing free things to do with the kids “in and around Lincoln”.

If you’ve got any mini history buffs in the family, they’ll enjoy a visit to the Museum of Lincolnshire Life.

The museum takes a deep dive into life in the county, from 1750 to the present day.

There’s an authentic WWI tank, interactive exhibitions and group quiz sessions.

Similarly, The Lincoln Museum is another indoor attraction well-worth the visit.

Aside from the fascinating exhibitions, it offers “Play at The Lincoln Museum” – a free activity centre packed with activities for younger children and a play zone for babies.

For older kids, there’s lots of interactive games and trails too.

Alternatively, just 20 minutes from Lincoln you’ll find Bransby Horses.

The charity owns a 600-acre site which is home to over 300 horses, ponies, donkeys and mules.

Visitors can walk through to admire the animals and set up for lunch at the designated picnic area.

There’s also a play park, cafe and gift shop.

Entry is free, although donations are recommended upon visiting to support the charity.

Sun reader Sarah Al-Aidi recommends Hubbard’s Hills – a vast green space near Louth with plenty of trees and a water valley.

“It’s a real beauty spot with great picnic areas, dog walking trails and nature walks” she says.

In the park you’ll find a play area and plenty of scenic picnic spots by the river – and it’s a great place to bring the dog, too.

Devon: Free soft play, giant animal models and discovery trails

Whilst Devon is known for it’s family-friendly beaches, there’s more to it than building sandcastles and wasting away your change at the arcades.

One of the best ways to explore the county is by undertaking one of its many outdoor discovery trails.

Haldon Forest near Exeter has a popular family activity trail which often has new themes depending on the time of year.

It’s a beautiful winding trail which ends at a picnic spot, home to an impressive Gruffalo sculpture.

And for kids of all ages, geo-caching can make for an exciting and energy-burning day out – and can get your kids away from their screens.

Geo-caching in Dartmoor or Exmoor National Parks is a fantastic way to get the kids to explore the outdoors.

Hidden around the parks you’ll find stashes of hidden items known as caches.

They’ll often have quirky items in to trade, as well as a log book to record your win finding the geo-cache.

In fact geo-caching happens all over the UK, and all the rules are on the geo-caching website.

Plus, the Royal William Yard Geo Trail in Plymouth is a fascinating look back in time to 380 million years ago.

And whilst you’re visiting Plymouth, dads can make the most of free soft play.

“On Thursdays, Barnardo’s runs a Dads and Dinkies session, which is free soft play for dads and the children” says Gem Krupa, Holiday Home Sales Manager at Challaborough Bay holiday park.

“Mums can have a rest while Dads take the kids down to the YMCA for a play.”

The free soft play sessions take place every Thursday at 1.30pm. Just make sure to prebook first!

Lastly, on the outskirts of Dartmoor in Bovey Tracey you can’t skip out on The Jolly Roger.

Here you’ll find incredible showrooms displaying giant animal and dinosaur models – and the best part is, it’s free to visit.

There’s also models of race cars, fairies, and at Christmas time the showroom even gets decked out with Santas and sleighs.

ACTRESS Jessie Buckley has revealed she had given birth to her first child.

The 35-year-old star kept her pregnancy largely private and only confirmed she was expecting when she proudly posed with her baby bump on the red carpet back in April of this year.

Now, the star has revealed she is a mother after welcoming a child, a baby girl, earlier this year.

Jessie has confirmed her motherhood during promotion for her upcoming film, Hamnet.

The star has admitted in a new interview that she was longing to become a parent during the filming of the movie and eventually fell pregnant with her child shortly after it wrapped.

She was heard speaking on The New York Times‘ Modern Love podcast in which she detailed falling pregnant after playing the role of a grieving mother for the movie.

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Jessie said: “I’m not surprised I got pregnant a week after I finished filming because I had coaxed… it was also quite intense to have that need while I was in this place of absolute mother and it not be a real thing yet.”

During the interview, she revealed she had welcomed a daughter when she opened up on what she hoped to pass onto her in the future.

Jessie added: “I think the thing I can hope to impart to her, and I’m sure she’s going to go on her whole own trajectory, and she should, is we have one life.

“There’s always going to be things in our life that are going to make us doubt or be afraid or feel like it would be safer to be smaller in some way.

“And I see this little life that’s so new but so full and so untarnished by an idea or a projection of what we’re supposed to be. And I just hope that if I can pass anything onto her in the way that my mother’s has passed on to me is that all the parts of you are not too much. 

“The world needs all of you, and that means incubating the struggles, is like living through the struggles, the shadows.

“The things that are going to challenge you, you have to metabolize it and incubate it. And there’s no too-muchness. It’s only to be lived fully.”

Jessie is notoriously private about her personal life and rarely discusses her life outside of acting.

She is understood to have got married in 2022 to a mystery man known only as Freddie.

According to reports he is a North London based mental health professional.

They are understood to divide their time equally between plush homes in London and Norfolk.

WHEN it comes to Christmas, you probably have a lot of family plans and then for the New Year, you might be seeing friends – but that time in between can be tricky to plan things to do.

Known as Twixmas, the period between Christmas and New Year – usually December 27, 28, 29 and 30 – always feels like you’re in a bit of a limbo.

You don’t know what day of the week it is, whether things are open or closed and you’re living off of leftovers from the big day.

So, instead of stressing about what you can and can’t do, here are 50 things across the UK that you can enjoy during Twixmas.

The Traitors Live Experience, London

Traitors fans can fully immerse themselves in the show at the live experience in Covent Garden, London.

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It costs from £29.50 per person.

Ice skating, various

There are a ton of ice skating rinks across the UK at the moment, most of which will be disappearing across January.

Ice skating is a fun winter activity and isn’t necessarily Christmassy so it is worth checking out the rink close to you and when it closes for the season.

One great site to visit is Somerset House in London, where you can go for a spin on the ice before grabbing a drink at The Chalet by Jimmy Garcia and looking out at the scenic setting.

It costs from £14 for adults and £12 for kids,

The Hitchhiker’s Guide To The Galaxy, London

The Hitchhiker’s Guide to The Galaxy experience is running in London until February 15.

During the experience, visitors can join characters including Arthur Dent, Zaphod Beeblebrox, and Fenchurch on a galactic adventure.

This is a new production and costs from £42.

The Legend of the Titanic, London

For those who want something immersive to do but are also interested in history, head to Dock X in Canada Water to The Legend of the Titanic.

The experience allows visitors to learn about the 1914 tragedy, as well as get a feel for what the ship would have looked like via AR.

It costs from £24 for adults and £16 for children.

Enchanted Tree Trail, Wentworth Castle Gardens, Barnsley, South Yorkshire

At Wentworth Castle Gardens in South Yorkshire, visitors can head on an enchanted tree trail.

Across the trail, visitors will see small creatures in their secret world.

It is running throughout the Twixmas period and costs from £6.50 per adult and £3.25 per child.

Cinema, various

What better time to head to a cosy film screening than when you have time off and are feeling lazy?

Between Christmas and New Year’s, a lot of cinemas are open and operating as normal.

It is the perfect time to feel like you’re getting out but also kicking up your feet at the same time.

And there are a number of great movies in the cinemas at the moment including the second part of Wicked, comedy Fackham Hall, and from December 19, the new Avatar: Fire and Ash.

Sunflowers Needle Felting Workshop, Lyveden near Oundle, Northamptonshire

Looking for something to do solo? Then why not head to Lyveden in Northamptonshire for a needle felting workshop.

Over two sessions, guests will learn how to transform wool into a small piece of art.

The workshop is designed for beginners, and by the end of the two sessions, guests will have created their own sunflower scene, inspired by Vincent van Gogh.

The workshops take place on Friday, January 30, from 10:30am to 3pm and cost £47.50 per person.

West End Shows, London

If you aren’t a fan of pantos, then why not opt for a London West End show instead?

Sites like TodayTix often offer deals and flash tickets at discounted prices for shows including Wicked and Moulin Rouge.

Twixmas swims, Ware Lido

Those who love a bit of an adrenaline rush can head to Ware Lido, which is open for festive swims.

Sessions for December 27 to 31 are still available… though they do advise wearing a wetsuit.

Adult swim sessions cost £6.75 and child sessions cost £3.75.

Fanhams Hall, Ware

The Jacobean mansion, Fanhams Hall, in Ware is hosting afternoon tea in the Drawing Room between Christmas and New Year.

The room overlooks the gardens at the house and visitors can enjoy a tiered offering of finger sandwiches, scones and sweet treats.

It costs from £40 per adult and there is a children’s tea available for £22.50 as well.

The afternoon tea is being hosted from December 27 to 30.

Afternoon tea, Petersham

Enjoy some classic British treats at Petersham, near Richmond from £54.00.

The menu includes roast turkey sandwiches and orange and cranberry scones.

You can even upgrade to have prosecco or champagne as well.

Eden Project, Cornwall

Eden Project is is opening to the public on Boxing Day for the first time since 2019, this year.

And over Twixmas there will be three, free running events on December 28, January 1 and January 4.

Eden Project also has an ice rink, which will be open until February.

And the Eden Project’s festive lights and soundscape experience will also take place each day between 5pm and 8pm, December 27 to 30.

Adult tickets cost £38 each and child tickets cost £12 each.

Helios, St Albans Museum + Gallery

If you love space or your kids do, then head to the solar show known as Helios at St Albans Museum + Gallery.

Here visitors can discover a six metre sculpture of the moon created by UK artist Luke Jerram.

The event runs from December 27 to January 25 and is free to visit.

Jurassic World Experience, London

It is your last chance to see Jurassic World Experience in London before it ends on January 4.

The experience features 10 immersive zones which bring the film to life.

It costs from £35.95 per adult and £28.95 per child.

Drayton Manor, Tamworth

Drayton Manor is the only UK theme park that will have all its major rides open throughout the festive period.

These rides include Gold Rush, The Wave and Maelstrom.

If visiting, your ticket will also include access to a new end-of-day show called ‘Drayton Manor’s Christmas Miracle’.

Tickets to the theme park cost £25 per person.

Edinburgh day trip

Head on a day trip to Edinburgh, which was recently named the most festive city in the UK by London Northwestern Railway (LNR).

It is either a short flight or a train journey, with both costing from around £34 per way.

Winchester Science Centre

Another one for aspiring astronauts is the Winchester Science Centre, which reopens on December 27 after being closed for Christmas.

Inside, visitors can explore many interactive exhibits as well as watch the live planetarium show – Solar System Adventure.

The Science Centre costs from £14 per person to visit.

Lights of Abraham, Peak District

Head to Lights of Abraham in the Peak District before they close for the year.

Visitors can go on a moon-lit cable car ride over a valley, which is full of lights.

Then, once they reach the summit, they can set off on a trail that has interactive stepping stones, a neon forest, and giant creatures.

The light trail is open from December 27 to 30 and costs from £22 per adult and £16 per child.

Stonehenge, Salisbury

For a refreshing walk with a bit of history, head to Stonehenge, in Wiltshire.

The world-famous prehistoric monument was built over 5,000 years ago, and visitors can walk around the stones as well as explore a museum about their history.

Stonehenge is only closed on Christmas Day, but has reduced hours on Christmas Eve and Boxing Day.

It costs from £25 per person to visit.

National Stone Centre, Matlock

Found just 30 minutes from Derby, on the edge of the Peak District, is the National Stone Centre.

Spread across 40 acres, it is free to visit all year round.

There are a number of activities for families, including geo-trails to find fossils.

There is also gem-panning which costs £3 per person.

There is also a playground as well.

Bounce Below, Llechwedd

Bounce Below features six netted areas with different chambers and bouncy nets for guests to play on.

And it is all set within caves under the ground, which is twice the size of St Paul’s Cathedral.

Tickets cost from £25 per person.

Sun Travel recently visited Bounce Below, finding it to be like a ‘theme park’ in caves.

Silent Pool Gin Festive Distillery Tour, Guildford

Silent Pool Gin Distillery in Guildford are running festive tours and tasting experience.

On each tour, a guide will explain how and why the distillery was created, and visitors will get to see the copper gin stills.

To make it a touch more festive, guests will also get to have a ‘Rare Citrus Hot Toddy’.

The tour will take place at various times across December 27 and 28 and it costs £30 per person.

Blenheim Palace, Oxfordshire

There’s nothing quite like visiting a palace and between Christmas and the New Year you could head to all three of the festive attractions at Blenheim Palace, as they remain open until January 3.

These include the Palace of Oz where the State Rooms have been transformed, The Great Skate ice rink and the Illuminated Light Trail.

Entry costs from £41 per adult and £24 per child.

Forest Bathing, Wrest Park

At Wrest Park, you could kick start 2026 with some pre-New Year wellbeing with forest bathing.

During the 90-minute experience, visitors will get to go on a slow walk through the woodland with a number of stops to explore nature.

The walk also includes a tea ceremony.

The event takes place on December 28 from 10:30am to 12pm and costs £22 per person.

Glow in the Dark, Mini Golf, Bath

Until January 4, you can head to a glow in the dark mini golf experience in Bath.

Found at Glow Golf, each player will have a glowing ball and the course is decked out with lights.

It costs £11.50 per adult and £9.75 per child.

Twilight Tobogganing, Mendip Activity Centre, Somerset

At Mendip Activity Centre in Somerset, families can explore a toboggan run until January 4.

Each session lasts 60 minutes, and visitors can discover an illuminated area where they can toast marshmallows and have a hot chocolate around a campfire.

It costs around £34 per person.

Beyond the Bonnets: Working Women in Jane Austen’s Novels, Willis Museum and Sainsbury Gallery

At the Willis Museum and Sainsbury Gallery visitors can explore the exhibition ‘Beyond the Bonnets: Working Women in Jane Austen’s Novels’.

The exhibition celebrates 250 years of the author and explores a number of true stories of working women from Hampshire, where Austen was from.

An adult ticket costs £5.45 and a child ticket costs £4.50.

Christmas break with Warner Hotels

Warner Hotels have a number of properties across the UK – and many of which have great deals on breaks during Twixmas.

Twixmas breaks start from £249 per person for a three-night stay (based on two people sharing), and include bed, breakfast and three-course dinners, entertainment, access to leisure facilities and activities.

There are also a number of day experiences available, starting from £25 per person.

Bongo’s Bingo: Bingo All The Way, Newcastle

Bongo’s Bingo is in Newcastle at the Boiler Shop over the festive period.

The event features a mix of traditional bingo, dance-offs, raves, and audience participation.

The bingo will be taking place on December 27, 28 and 31 and it costs from £23.

Christmas Rocks, O2 City Hall, Newcastle

Over four days, a festival with rock tribute bands will be performing at O2 City Hall in Newcastle.

There will be AC/DC GB, Fleeting Rumours, Green Days and Paramore UK performing.

The event runs from December 27 to 30 and costs from £29.90 per person.

Twist Museum, London

Head to Twist Museum in London to explore a number of rooms with different illusions that are fun for both kids and adults.

There is also a new Lapland Infinity Forest at the museum, for a little bit of a festive twist.

Prices start from £20 per child and £24.50 per adult.

Exhibition on Screen: Caravaggio, Tyneside Cinema, Newcastle

A special screening at Tyneside Cinema will show the latest edition of Exhibition on Screen – a documentary series that explores the history behind different artworks.

This time, the event will focus on artist Caravaggio, and it is believed to be the most extensive film made about the artist.

It takes place on Monday, December 29 and costs around £10 for standard tickets.

Christmas Stick Man Trail, Haldon Forest near Exeter

Fans of Julia Donaldson should head to Haldon Forest near Exeter, in Devon for a day of exploring the Stick Man trail.

The trail follows Stick Man as he helps Santa deliver the final present.

The trail runs until January 4 and is free to visit.

Bubblicious family raves with the Soapbox Theatre, Plymouth

The Soapbox Theatre in Plymouth is hosting a family-friendly dance party, to celebrate New Year’s Eve.

It will include sessions for families with babies and one for older kids as well.

A DJ will play dance music, with glow sticks, UV face painting, and performers present too.

There is also a bar for adults too.

It takes place on December 31 and costs from £10 per person.

Museums, various

Up and down the UK there are many museums that will be open over the period between Christmas and New Year, including the Natural History Museum.

Museums are great spots for a day out especially when it is raining and cold.

And to add to that, a lot are free to visit as well.

Meet Paddington at Wookey Hole

At Wookey Hole Caves, visitors will be able to meet Paddington as well as explore ancient caves.

The caves are currently decked out with 100,000 lights and there is also an on-site circus show.

It costs from £19 per person.

Big Fat Quiz of the Year, Hampshire

The Wellington Arms in Hampshire is hosting a ‘Big Fat Quiz of the Year’.

Teams can be no bigger than six people, and it costs £2 per person to enter.

And of course there are prizes.

It takes place on December 29 at 6pm to 10pm.

Treasure hunt, Leeds

Treasure Hunt Leeds allows visitors to explore the city and solve clues in the process.

You can see the sights of the city, such as Victorian arcades and the Corn Exchange.

What’s best about this experience, is you can take it at your own pace.

It costs £15 per person.

Hawkchurch Resort and Spa, Axminster, South Devon

What about just having a mini-break?

For example, you could stay at Hawkchurch Resort and Spa for three nights from December 27 from £375.

Each lodge sleeps between two and eight people, and pets are also welcome.

The site itself has amazing views of the Axe Valley, and you can even opt for a lodge with a private hot tub.

Escape rooms, various

Escape rooms are a great family-friendly activity to do, and there are different venues across the UK.

For example, you could even go to Butlin’s Bognor Regis Playxperience where there are a few different options including Escape the Seven Seas Escape Room, which is suitable for children over the age of five.

The majority of escape rooms are more suitable for older kids though.

And prices tend to vary greatly, but you can expect to pay at least £30 per player.

Butlin’s break, across all three sites

Butlin’s is hosting festive breaks from £129 per person at Skegness, Bognor Regis, and Minehead.

These are great for small kids with lots of activities and shows to explore at each site.

Sun Travel has visited Butlin’s on numerous occasions, including trying the £1.8 million indoor soft play attraction at one of the sites.

A spa day, various

Why not treat yourself to a pamper session?

For example, Bannatyne Spas offer pamper days from £104 for two people.

There is nothing like a refreshing facial or revitalising massage before the New Year…

Pantomimes, UK wide

Just because Christmas is over doesn’t mean the pantos are!

Most pantomimes run on until the New Year, and some even beyond.

And they aren’t necessarily Christmas-themed – for example, Jack and the Beanstalk or Dick Wittington.

So why not have a laugh with a pantomime Dame?

Hook Norton Brewery, Banbury

For beer fans or just those who want to get a tipple in before dry January, head to Hook Norton Brewery.

Over the Twixmas period, you can book a brewery tour and also grab a bite to eat at Malthouse Kitchen.

Each tour costs £20 per person.

Wake the Tiger, Bristol

Wake the Tiger in Bristol is the UK’s largest immersive art experience and the world’s first amazement park.

Inside, visitors will head on a self-guided journey of “kaleidoscopic realms”, with over 40 immersive spaces.

It costs from £16.50 per adult and £13.50 per child.

Silverstone Lap of Lights, Northamptonshire

Formula 1 fans can catch a festive twist on the motorsport at the Silverstone circuit with a two-mile light trail.

There is also an ice rink at the track too.

It costs from £50 per person.

Shell Grotto, Margate

Hidden beneath Margate in Kent is the Shell Grotto, which has over 2,000 sq ft of walls and ceilings completely covered in mosaics made of seashells.

In fact, there are over 4.6million seashells in total.

Entry costs £4.50 for adults, £2 for kids and £4 for concessions (over 60s, students registered disabled, armed forces).

Race Across the World: The Experience, Manchester

For fans of the TV show Race Across the World, there is now a brand new experience in Manchester.

The experience is designed for teams of two to eight players and lasts about three hours.

Participants head around the city, solving puzzles as they go.

It costs from £25 per person.

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Dreamery Gardens, York

Head to the folklore-filled woodland known as Dreamery Gardens, located just outside of York.

Filled with over 100 fairy doors, there is a 1.5km trail to discover.

Tickets start at £14.95 per person.

Chaos Karts, Manchester

Chaos Karts is a go-karting experience mixed with video games that makes it feel as if you are in Mario Kart.

The virtual tracks come alive around you as you race your rivals.

It costs from £30 per person.

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WHEN Helen Flanagan and Scott Sinclair split after 13 years, they vowed to keep things amicable for the sake of their young kids.

But it was not long before the dynamic of the celebrity couple’s co-parenting soon began to show signs of strain.

The former Corrie actress blamed petty squabbles and communication issues, yet still remained tight-lipped about her ex.

But overnight, tensions between the pair appear to have hit DEFCON 1.

Helen, 35, flipped her lid when she spotted photos of Scott, 36, living the high life at the Grand Prix in Abu Dhabi, skipping their four-year-old son’s Christmas nativity play.

Lashing out online at the retired Bristol Rovers footballer, she raged: “You really are a piece of s**t,” ­sharing Scott’s Instagram post.

“How dare you not turn up to ­Charlie’s nativity,” she added.

Scott had posted snaps from his VIP weekend in the United Arab Emirates where he watched Lando Norris secure his maiden Drivers’ Championship title.

Standing in front of a huge F1 sign, he posed gleefully, tagging the post “What a weekend — Abu Dhabi F1.” He added: “Happy Days, blurry nights.”

Meanwhile, Helen shared a sweet snap of her cuddling their young son, captioning it: “Loved Charlie’s nativity. My star, my heartbeat.”

But when she spotted Scott’s jet- setting post, her blood boiled.

Now sources have told The Sun that Helen’s ex’s decision to skip ­Charlie’s school performance was just the tip of the iceberg — a culmination of bad behaviour that has left the telly star fuming.

The former couple share daughters Matilda, ten, Delilah, seven, and four-year-old son Charlie.

Yesterday Helen was spotted looking stony-faced while heading to her latest panto performance in Liverpool, where she is starring as The Wicked Queen in a production of Snow White.

A pal told The Sun: “Helen’s livid with Scott’s behaviour. He’s thinking about himself, not his children.

“She said, ‘I’m done letting him treat his family like this’. At the end of the day Helen is the mother of his kids. He needs to show more respect.”

Another pal said: “Helen is working full-time at the moment in panto so was expecting Scott to cover the nativity and go for her, as she has a lot on her plate and he is retired.

“When he didn’t bother, she wasn’t happy and took to her social media to vent her frustration and make a point.

“Their relationship is difficult at times — co-parenting is hard.”

Boys’ trips

Meanwhile another source close to the couple blames newly single Scott for embracing his “Hot Boy Winter” moment, leaving his family to ­suffer.

“Ever since Scott became single again things started to go downhill,” the source said.

“It’s been an incredibly testing few months for Helen, who feels like she is busting a gut and Scott doesn’t seem to get it.

“To make matters worse he is having the children for Christmas this year, which is another blow.”

Last year The Sun told how Scott was dating family friend Lauren Davies, 32, who is from his home city of Bath.

Things were going well up until the start of this year, when they are said to have decided they were better off as friends.

The source said: “Helen really liked Lauren and thought she was really good for Scotty.

You really are a piece of s***. How dare you not turn up to ­Charlie’s nativity

Helen on Instagram

“She has great values and felt it was important that Scott sees his kids and she wanted everyone to get along.

“But since their split, Scott hasn’t been present. He is constantly showing off his wealth online — with his extravagant boys’ trips. It’s a bit of a kick in the teeth.”

According to pals, tensions between Helen and Scott are so bad that the pair have blocked each other on WhatsApp, only communicating through family members.

The Sun also understands Scott wants to sell the £1.5million family home near Bolton and move Helen and the kids into a smaller property.

The eight-bedroom house went on the market in June, but Helen is standing firm. One pal said: “Scott is trying to sell the family home, but Helen has moved six times since Matilda was born.

“And because she is refusing to uproot the children, he’s stopped some of the money he was giving her for the kids. She’s fuming.

“The house is right next to her mum and dad, who take care of the kids while Helen works.

“Scott’s retired so he could have them, but he’s swanning around in Dubai and London and flashing it all over Instagram.

“At the same time he is claiming he can’t afford to give her the money, but he goes and blows £20,000 on the F1.”

Helen’s livid with Scott’s behaviour. He’s thinking about himself, not his children

A pal

The pal said Christmas will be particularly hard for Helen without her kids.

They said: “She is working full-time at the panto and dealing with the kids, with no help from Scott.

“Then he’ll have them at Christmas and post it all over Instagram, claiming to be dad of the year. He’s picking and choosing when he wants to help, but parenting doesn’t work like that.

“Helen has supported him for his whole football career and moved all over the country, but she’s adamant that she doesn’t want to uproot the kids and cause more disruption in their lives.”

This comes after Helen signed up to star in reality TV show Celebrity Ex On The Beach, in which she intends to “cause fireworks”.

Last month we revealed she was abroad filming scenes — and will not be holding back when it comes to getting what she wants.

Number blocked

It is not the first time the couple’s co-parenting relation- ship has been tested, with Helen previously saying Scott had her number blocked on his phone.

In October 2024 she told a podcast: “I’m on block at the moment on Scott’s phone. I really am. I’m on block.” However, she later said that the couple were on speaking terms so that they could co-parent their brood.

To make matters worse he is having the children for Christmas this year, which is another blow

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But in recent months things appear to have taken a turn again, as Helen hinted at trouble.

Earlier this month she told The Sun: “He lives in Somerset and I live in Lancashire. So we live so far away from each other, which is really difficult when you’ve got three young children.

“I hate calling it co-parenting because I don’t really feel like a co-parent, to be honest with you.”

Reflecting on their split in 2024, Helen told The Sun: “It was a mutual decision and personally, I felt as a mum that this was the best thing for my children.

“I want them to see healthy relationships and to be in healthy environments. I think if you’re unhappy then that projects on to them.”

She added: “I love Scott and I know that he loves me, but I suppose we just don’t like each other very much at the moment.

“We don’t really speak and there’s no point in pretending that we’re the best of friends when we’re not.”

Both Helen and Scott were approached for comment.

IT’S the final week before Christmas arrives, and with some schools now breaking up and people using up their annual leave, there are plenty of free events to enjoy across England.

Whether you’re looking for something free to do with the kids or want to enjoy a bit of festive cheer yourself, there is something for everyone.

Don’t celebrate Christmas? Not to worry, there are things for you too.

Winter Solstice at Stonehenge

This Sunday, December 21, the Winter Solstice will take place.

On the day, English Heritage provides free access to Stonehenge on the Salisbury Plain in Wiltshire, England to see the moment itself.

Parking must be pre-booked or there is a regular bus service from Salisbury city centre.

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Waterstones Christmas events

A number of Waterstones stores across the UK are hosting free Christmas events this week.

On December 17, head to Waterstones Newton Abbot in Devon or Newport on the Isle of Wight for some late night shopping with mulled wine and mince pies.

On December 18, a number of stores are running events including late night shopping at Waterstones Merry Hill, Middlesbrough, Huddersfield and Doncaster.

Also on December 18, you could head to Waterstones Exeter, Roman Gate, for a festive evening with appearances from Kate Lord Brown (author of The Golden Hour) and Alexandra Dawe (author The Stitchwort Curse), alongside the Global Harmony Choir.

Lowry 360, Manchester

Manchester has a new free immersive gallery experience, where visitors can immerse themselves in the sights and sounds of LS Lowry’s iconic painting, Going to the Match.

You do need to book tickets though, which also gives you access to Modern Life: The LS Lowry Collection and Quentin Blake and Me.

Tudor Christmas – the final Gresham College lecture

Gresham College lectures are free public talks in London, that have been running for over four centuries and cover a vast variety of topics.

The final lecture of the year will be all about how the Tudors celebrated 12 days of feasting, carols, gift giving and mischief under the Lord of Misrule.

If you cannot attend in person, there is also a livestream of the lecture.

It takes place on December 17, from 6pm to 7pm.

Carol Services

With it being the festive season, there are a number of free carol services across the UK.

For example, you could head to Toddler Carols at Bristol Cathedral, which is an informal carol service where “energy, noise, and movement that young children bring” is welcome.

The carol services take place on December 17 at 11am, 2pm and 3:30pm.

At Langham Place, in London, there will also be free All Souls Carols with Christmas punch and mince pies.

There’s no need to book, but it is recommended that if you want a seat, to turn up early.

The event will take place on December 18 at 5.30pm and 7.30pm, December 20 at 3.30pm, 5.30pm and 7.30pm and on December 21 at 9.30am, 5.30pm and 7.30pm.

If you are looking for a free carol service near you, look at local churches websites and Christmas markets as these places often host a festive sing-song session.

Cotehele: Wassail! in Saltash, Cornwall

At the National Trust‘s Cotehele, there will be an annual Wassail this week, which is supposed to scare away evil spirits from the orchard to ensure a good harvest next year.

The event includes singing songs alongside a band and fancy dress is encouraged.

It takes place on December 20, 11am to 12:30pm.

Birmingham Xmas Reindeer Trail

In Birmingham city centre you can currently discover a Reindeer Trail including Rudolph, Dasher, Dancer, Prancer, Vixen, Comet, Cupid, Donner and Blitzen.

Four of the reindeer have been given a refresh since last year, with new designs.

And there is even a Roy Wood I Wish It Could Be Christmas Every Day theme.

Visitors can find a trail map online, which can be downloaded and for kids there’s a game to find a hidden word.

On each reindeer there is a letter and when collected all together the letters spell out a word.

The free event runs until January 6, with reindeer spread across the city centre.

The Cosy Christmas Corner at Ikea Bristol

Ikea stores across the UK run a lot of events, most of which are free.

On Sunday, December 21, between 12pm and 4pm, head to Ikea Bristol and enjoy the Cosy Christmas Corner, where there will be storytelling.

You don’t need to book and when there, the Christmas Elf will share festive stories lasting 15 to 20 minutes a time.

The Austen Ball at the Bank of England

Head to the Bank of England in London on Thursday for The Austen Ball, which will be an evening inspired by the world of Jane Austen.

The event will transform the Stock Office into a grand ball, with a free historical dance workshop and silhouette portrait-making.

The event takes place on Thursday 18 December, from 5.15pm to 8pm.

Christmas in Comer Woods

Located at Dudmaston Estate, in Bridgnorth, Shropshire, there is a volunteer-led three mile walk through Sandilands.

Visitors can enjoy the coastal air as well as potentially see some local wildlife.

Volunteer-led walks will run from December 15 to 24, from 9am to 3pm each day.

Harland Miller at the Design Museum

There is a new display at the Design Museum in London showcasing paintings by the artist Harland Miller and it includes brand new work by the artist.

Visitors cam head to the museum between now and January 26 to see the canvases, which reflect on Miller’s time living in Los Angeles.

La Nativité at Bristol Cathedral

In Bristol, head to La Nativité on Monday, which will feature music, the smell of incense and be performed by candlelight.

And, for the first time in 18 months, the cathedral organ will be heard again following restoration.

Messiaen’s 1935 masterpiece will be played through the performance as well.

No charge or booking required and the show takes place on December 15, 7pm to 8:30pm.

For more inspiration on things to do with the kids over the festive period, a huge new waterpark has opened with 16 attractions and lazy river.

Plus, a huge movie and TV studios opening as top UK attraction next year – that lets you walk onto sets like EastEnders.

PETER Andre has revealed a strict parenting rule for his youngest kids as he insists ‘the dangers are so real’.

The Mysterious Girl singer has five children; son Junior and daughter Princess with his first wife Katie Price, and younger children Amelia, Theo and Arabella with second wife, Emily.

While Junior, 20, and Princess, 18, have grown up in the spotlight both have large followings on social media, Peter and Emily have kept the lives of their younger children much more private, and don’t show their faces on social media.

So it may not come as a surprise to Peter’s fans that he agrees with Australia‘s decision to ban teenagers under the age of 16 from using social media.

Peter, who grew up in Australia and whose parents still live there, wrote in his latest New! Magazine column: “Australia has implemented their social media ban for under 16s, and it’s great.

“When people ask me if it’s a contradiction that I’ve had my kids on social media, we have to remember that when social media first started, we were all new to it. We didn’t know the pitfalls of it.

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“Now, we’re seeing what AI can do; that’s why our youngest children are not on it.

“I fully support the ban. I know that’s not what kids under 16 want to hear, but it will do them so much good.”

He concluded: “I hope the rest of the world catches on. The dangers are so real.”

On December 10, the Australian Government required social media platforms to deactivate accounts of users under the age of 16.

The platforms – including Facebook, TikTok, Instagram and Snapchat among others – must then take “reasonable steps” to prevent people under 16 from holding an account or face a fine of up to $49.5m (£24.5m).

While Peter and Emily reside in the UK, they do visit his family in Australia, and if they lived there, the ban would apply to all three of their youngest children.

Meanwhile Princess recently opened up exclusively to The Sun about her ITV reality show, The Princess Diaries, which has landed a second series.

She said: “I feel like I’m stepping into adulthood now, and that’s what series two will be more about.

“It is still following my life and everything that I do and everything on there is natural and what my life really is like.

“I’m used to the cameras following me around now, and nothing will be guarded or held back, because there’s nothing that I need to hide.” 

I LOVES the ’Diff – that’s a phrase I wasn’t familiar with until last weekend.

This won’t be news to our Welsh readers but, for my fellow English, it means “I love Cardiff”.

And after spending a festive weekend there, I really do.

I went with my husband and our two girls to visit the Welsh capital’s Christmas light trail in Bute Park.

We’ve done similar excursions nearer to home, but this was on a whole different level.

Snaking its way around the beautiful grounds of Cardiff Castle – which is well worth a visit, too – is a mile-long wonderland of dreamy lights, mind-bending LED tunnels and laser displays that leave you awestruck.

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Each of the trail’s 15 magical segments, with names such as Water Willow and Rainbow Riot, is as breathtaking as the last.

And the interactive elements at many of the stops will delight children and big kids alike.

For the mothers and fathers, I counted three refreshment stops along the way, serving mulled wine and pints of local beer.

And there’s all manner of hot food in the Christmas Village, served up by local traders, and including Oh My Sausage, Let’s Wrap fried chicken and Cattle & Co.

Of course, my girls, Flo, five, and Phillie, three, were far more interested in the marshmallow toasting stations and an opportunity to post a letter to Father Christmas.

Emerging from the trail, you are bang in the middle of The ’Diff.

I can’t believe I never visited in my twenties – because Cardiff likes to party.

Think bustling streets, live music in the air and revellers in fancy dress but not being too rowdy.

Our base was the imposing Voco St David’s hotel, which looms large like a ship’s sail over the rejuvenated Cardiff Bay area. Commanding stunning views, the hotel is ideal for families because it’s slightly away from the city centre – which I imagine can get a little hectic the longer the night wears on – but still offers plenty to see and do nearby.

Once a hub for trading ships, the docks are now home to shops, restaurants and museums.

A must-visit is The Dock bar and restaurant which serves elevated gastropub classics, including traditional Welsh cawl – a delicious lamb stew.

We had a fantastic meal there while watching Wales take on South Africa on home soil in Autumn Nations rugby.

The result didn’t go Wales’ way –  to put it lightly – but even that didn’t dampen the spirits of the locals, who continued to dance to the live band long after the final whistle.

Speaking of rugby, the South African squad were also staying at the St David’s hotel. It created one hell of a buzz, and I got to see my husband star-struck for the first time.

Dinner that night was in the hotel’s Tir a Mor (Land and Sea) restaurant.

The food was excellent and, for the ladies, the view was just as nice as the South African rugby players drifted in and out.

But that was just the cherry on top of what was an all-round magical weekend with the family.

All I can say is that we will be going back  . . . and that I loves The ’Diff.

I’VE found the best holiday park to spend the Christmas holidays at – and we’re returning as a family again this year.

My family of five has visited Haven, Butlin’s, Center Parcs and Away Resorts for a seasonal staycay in recent times, but we always end up back at our favourite.

Park Holidays‘ Broadland Sands near Great Yarmouth, is our fail-safe every year, even when none of the park facilities like the pool or the climbing wall are open in December.

But for a cosy Christmas getaway, it’s all about the accommodation for us.

With a big open-plan kitchen, dining and living area, there’s enough space (and crockery) to host a sit-down meal for a dozen people, so its ideal for hosting larger families.

It’s so much easier than trying to gather everyone together at home, hunting for extra chairs, working out how we can all fit around the table and cleaning the house before guests arrive.

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Instead it feels like a real treat to be staying in a spotless space where everyone can chip in with the cooking without treading on anyone’s toes.

My top tip would be to bring a slow cooker or an air fryer so you’ve got a back-up plan if you can’t fit everything in the oven, especially if you’ve got a lot of mouths to feed. 

The lodges at Broadland Sands are tucked away at one end of the park and it really does feel like you’re a million miles away from the hustle and bustle of normal life, waking up to the sun glistening through frosty trees outside.

Next door is St Bartholomew’s, a semi-ruined church that still hosts some Sunday services.

And just up the lane is the Lodge at Woburn Farm, which offers music nights and food, so you can enjoy a party atmosphere if the mood takes you.

I like to bring a stash of cosy treats, like fluffy socks, matching PJs and hot chocolate with marshmallows so we can really make the most of our comfortable accommodation and take a bit of time to get some R&R during the festivities.

While we love our quiet Christmas away, there’s also something to be said for heading to Haven or Butlin’s for full-on family fun.

Last year we spent Twixmas at Haven’s Seashore park and had a great time, splashing in the pool and watching the panto in the entertainment venue.

But the best bit of the break was wandering along a deserted beach in the late December sunshine and cosying up in our caravan for a family film night.

The festive season is already so busy with nights out, children’s parties and end-of-term activities that we all just want a bit of peace and quiet by the time we go on our Yuletide getaway. 

That’s why going to a luxury lodge on a closed park proves perfect most years.

Happily it also tends to be the most cost-effective option.

We spent around £250 for the weekend, compared to the steep £1,400 at Center Parcs Elveden Forest or £1,060 for a seaview lodge at Haven Seashore.

Having said that, we do also enjoy an occasional seasonal staycay elsewhere, especially now so many more UK parks have opened up until the New Year.

We quite often make a cheeky midweek visit to Butlin’s, which is usually a bargain £50 for four nights.

One year, there was even a free ice-skating rink at Skegness, so it really did give my family that festive feel for next to nothing.

Now’s the perfect time to bag a bargain break to end 2025 with a bang, so get booking!