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A dad whose son has been missing since 1988 told his story on ITV’s This Morning

A father has told how his life became “a living nightmare” after his 15-year-old son vanished without a trace.

Lee Boxell was last seen on September 10, 1988 after he left his home in Sutton, south west London, to meet a friend. He was seen on the High Street in the town that day, but there have been no confirmed sightings since.

Police have theorised that Lee could have been killed after stepping in to stop or threatening to report an assault in the grounds of a church where an unofficial youth club took place.

Appearing on ITV‘s This Morning, his dad Peter Boxell shared how the family were “panic-stricken” and went through their “worst nightmare” after Lee didn’t come home that day.

“It was just like a living nightmare from then on,” he said. “I think it’s every person’s, every family member, every parent’s worst nightmare. And for us, it was a living nightmare.”

He told hosts Josie Gibson and Paddy McGuinness: “We couldn’t sleep for weeks after that. We thought, we didn’t want to miss a phone call or a knock on the door if Lee could come home.”

Paddy asked how Peter had carried on through the years, and he replied: “Well, we’ve been essentially living in limbo, not knowing what’s happened to our son, Lee. And we desperately want to know what happened to him. I mean, I’m old now. I’m 80. His mother’s a few years older than me.

“Most of Lee’s relatives have passed on. And he has a sister who desperately wants to know what happened to him. And she has her own children. So Lee’s now got a niece and a nephew. They know all about Lee. And they want to know what happened to Lee.”

Asked what he thought had happened, Peter said: “I think that the police’s theory is correct, that Lee went to the unofficial youth club at the back of the church in the graveyard at St Dunstan’s in Cheam. And I think he went there, maybe only once.

“And I think he may have seen something, some criminal activity going on. Maybe he saw somebody assaulting a child there. And he would either have gone to the aid of that child or he would have gone for help.

“And I’m only guessing. I just think that the adults who were carrying out that crime may have tried to silence Lee. They may have unintentionally killed him. I don’t know, but I think they may have killed him. That’s what I think has happened.”

Josie also read out a comment from the Met, saying: “They have said, ‘We’ve never stopped our investigation into what happened to Lee. And it remains ongoing within the Met’s cold case team.

“We would urge anyone who did not feel able to speak to police in the past to come forward and tell us what they know. If you can help, whether anonymously or otherwise, please, please, please get in touch’.”

This Morning airs on ITV at 10am on weekdays.

WHEN you think of a holiday to the Netherlands, most people only think of Amsterdam.

Yet as someone who lived in the country for more than two years, there are so many other amazing places that are overlooked by Brits, but are just as beautiful and with far fewer tourists.

Even better – you can get to them all easily by train for under €35.

From the ‘Venice of the North’ to cheap beer, here are some of my off-the-beaten track places to go as an alternative destination.

Giethoorn

The village of Giethoorn in the province of Overijssel has two nicknames – the ‘town with no roads’ or ‘the Venice of the North’.

The latter nickname comes from its many canals, which you can easily traverse by boat.

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In fact, this mode of transportation over the use of cars is so popular, you’re likely to have more boat traffic than road traffic, with lines of them queuing up.

At the entrance of Geithoorn, the first thing you’ll notice is that the village is floating on a massive lake. Instead of paying for a tour, opt for renting a tiny wooden boat and explore the canal belt at your own pace. 

If you want to keep things cheap, consider popping into a local supermarket, such as Albert Heijn (just make sure to before entering the village as there are no supermarkets floating about).

Travel down the waterways and you’ll eventually hit a massive pond called Boveenwijde. For many, this is the moment to switch off the engines and enjoy the sun. 

This is also the perfect time to crack open one of those beers you bought from the supermarket, taking in the peaceful scenery by water.

While you’re there, head to Northwest Europe’s largest peat bog wetland – the Weerribben-Wieden National Park. 

As you make your way through the maze of lakes, ponds and ditches, you might even spot otters floating next to you. 

When it comes to places to stay, Giethoorn Old Art Hotel offers guests a perfect base where you can wake up to river views every morning. 

Rooms start from €87.76 (£75.21) per night. 

Take a train from Amsterdam Centraal to Steenwijk followed by Bus 70 for €33 (£28.30),with a journey time around two hours.

Groningen 

Go all the way up to the very top of the Netherlands where you almost hit the coast of the country and you’ll find one of the biggest student cities in the country – Groningen.

The reason for its popularity with students on a budget? The cheap beer.

I managed to find a cold crisp pint for as little as €3.50 (£3) during my student days, but you need to know where to look.

The Warhol bar is easy to sport, with its neon-green Grolsch sign outside and colourful graffiti plastered on the walls. 

Make your way through the crowds and red lighting from above and you’ll find a busy bar with wacky animations turning around on the screen behind and pints from €4 (£3.40)

Otherwise there is also ORKZ bar just a bit further down, built into a former Roman-Catholic hospital. 

It only became a bar after legal squatters took over in 1979, and now is found in the old kitchen of the hospital and run entirely by volunteers.

Inside find head-banging music, grunge, and famously the city’s cheapest beers where a pint starts from €3.50 (£3).

In the midst of barhopping, check out Grote Markt, a buzzy square in the middle of the city. 

Once a central trading spot since the Middle Ages, admire the 15th century gothic Martini Tower – a landmark of the city. 

Stay at Martini Hotel in the city center during your trip. Rooms start from €96 (£82) a night and guests can rent bicycles from the hotel to explore the sights of Groningen. 

Take a train from Amsterdam Centraal to Groningen for €33.30 (£28.50), taking around two hours.

Gouda

Everyone has heard of the famous Gouda cheese, so why not take a short trip down to the city that invented it?

If you’re visiting during April and August, head to the market square in front of the Stashuis on Thursday morning to find the Cheese Market.

Or dive into the world of cheese by going on the Gouda Cheese Experience. 

Found inside an aptly-painted yellow building, visitors are taken on an interactive journey exploring what it takes to become a cheese master.

Another famous snack of the Netherlands is the stroopwafel – and while popular in Amsterdam it was actually invented in this town. 

Once the ‘poor man’s cookie’ in the 18th century, it has since become a much-loved quick bite to eat.

One of the most fun places to get them is from a vending machine which serves them warm from €2 (£1.70) – and there are more than 286 compartments to choose from. 

Stay at City Hotel Gouda, a stylish hotel along the Gouwe River and a short walking distance to the city’s best attractions. Rooms start from €130 (£112) a night. 

Take a 50 minute Intercity train from Amsterdam to Gouda starting from €15.10 (£13).

Den Bosch

In the south of the Netherlands (past Eindhoven) is the small city of ‘S-Hertogenbosch or as the locals call it, Den Bosch. 

Right by the station is the Banketbakkerij Jan de Groot bakery, with the local delicacy of Bossche Bol – think a chocolate eclair but rounder – for less than £3.

One of its most famous festivals in town is celebrated in February, with the four-day Oeteldonk where locals dress up as cartoon frogs.

The city changes its name during the carnival to Oeteldonk which translates to Frog Hill which explains the frog costumes. 

Don’t worry if the full froggy outfit is too much for you – you can show your support by wearing a combination of red, white and yellow. 

As long as you dance to the tunes of the carnival clubs as soon as you step inside, you’ve got the right spirit.

Close to the main station in Den Bosc  is the charming Duke Hotel with quaint rooms that start from €118 (£101) a night.

Take a 49 minute Intercity train from Amsterdam starting at €15.30 (£13.11).

Michelle Baker has lived in Benidorm for most of her life and the Brit has now opened up about a new scam that targets female tourists in the Spanish holiday hotspot

A British mum who has called Benidorm home for over 42 years has warned holidaymakers about a new scam that targets women.

Michelle Baker is married to a Spaniard and she has raised their children in the popular resort where she used to run a newspaper for Brits. However, she now keeps travellers updated by sharing tips and information on her Benidormforever Facebook page.

But her most recent post was a more serious one. Sh explained: “Statistically Benidorm is a very safe resort, however, like any busy city there are opportunists waiting to rob you.”

She then said to follow the obvious precautions like keeping your valuables close and your suitcase in sight — before naming the scams actively taking place this summer.

New scam

Michelle labelled this scam the “selfie steal” and she explained: “This is a new one and targets women mostly. A couple asks you to take a photo… they’re all smiles and overly friendly… then they ask you to get into their selfie.”

The Benidorm expert advised that this was the point where you must decline — before explaining the dangers of not doing so.

She continued: “Once up close they’ll deftly grab your goodies, purse, phone watch and jewellery and you won’t feel a thing.”

Phone theft

She said phone theft was the “number one crime” in Benidorm at the moment and that modern smartphones are being sold for significant prices on the black market, especially if they are unlocked.

Michelle warned that distracting tactics were used to make the crime non-violent and painless and that most are simply swiped from tables.

However, she warned: “But recently thieves are getting smarter; they want your phone unlocked so typically they’ll approach you while you’re scrolling and tell you they are lost and ask to use Google Maps on your phone.”

She said never to hand your phone over and that thieves will take it quickly before passing it on to someone in a waiting car who will change your password, spend your money and ultimately ruin your trip.

‘The Peamen’

The mum said this was the most famous scam that has been going on for years in Benidorm and despite being so well known, she said people still fall for it.

It involves a man hiding a pea under a cup, moving the cups around, and then encouraging you to bet on which one contains the pea.

A couple (who are playing and in on the scam) win and because you can see where it is you then take a risk. According to Michelle, you will then win the first round before losing the rest.

She added: “They won’t let you get away until you’re skint and you’ll find it very intimidating and scary… just walk on by.”

‘Mugger Huggers’

This one targets men, and involves an attractive woman walking up to you and asking whether she knows you, before extending her arms out for a hug.

If you hug her back, she will have your phone and wallet in a flash, and you will often not notice until she is gone.

Michelle said there was an extended version to this sinister scam depending on how drunk you are where the woman will offer to come back to your room.

“She’ll drug you and clear you out of everything of any value and you won’t be the first or the last,” Michelle added.

Michelle has lived in Benidorm for most of her life and said she was always willing to share the good, the bad and sometimes the ugly.

However, in a message to Brits flying over this summer, she added: “I don’t want to scare you as Benidorm is really very safe.”

She added that people on holiday often let their guard down and it was better to be aware of the above scams before the holiday even begins.

ONE travel expert who has lived in 25 different countries has revealed the one destination that trumps them all.

The Turquoise Coast in Turkey has it all from year-round sunshine to cheap hotels with huge swimming pools, and plenty of restaurants.

Gary Cook, a TUI retail agent, explained: “I’ve worked everywhere, but I keep coming back to Turkey – particularly the Antalya region and Marmaris on the Turquoise Coast.”

He’s racked up 17 trips to Turkey since working in Marmaris over 30 years ago.

“It’s got everything you might want – stunning beaches, such as the Turunc Beach, incredible history, amazing food.

“With an amazing selection of all-inclusive resorts, you can enjoy the views, sip on a cocktail and not have to worry about paying extra while you’re there.”

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It’s no secret that the Turquoise Coast with destinations like Marmaris and Antalya is a hit with Brits thanks to its cheap prices and short four-hour flight from the UK.

While Antalya has golden sands and is famous for its huge waterpark, The Land of Legends Theme Park, Gary really recommends Marmaris.

Gary added: “Marmaris offers a completely different vibe – a large beach dotted with bars and restaurants.

“A promenade stretching down to the old town with its markets and bazaars, plus a cosmopolitan harbour. The bay is absolutely stunning, especially at sunrise.”

When it comes to where to eat out, Gary recommends Nil, a fish restaurant on the Marina or Mehmet Ocakbasi for authentic Turkish food.

When it comes to shopping, the newly renovated Marmaris Bazaar is the place to be.

When it comes to booking, you don’t have to wait until the summer seasons as Gary explains that “even the winters are mild”.

“Whether you want to go in the school holidays or off-season, you are sure to get your fix of sun.”

Although the season runs from April through to October, Gary calls it a year-round destination with mild winters.

While it’s not necessarily ‘hot’ in the months of November to March, it can still see highs of 17C – much warmer than it is in the UK.

Gary even has hotel suggestions, including some of his favourites.

TUI BLUE Side

Found in Antalya, the TUI BLUE Side has a huge swimming pool, three restaurants, and five bars.

Gary said: “This adults-only hotel is smaller and modern with loads of activities. The pool area has luxury sunbeds spread, and there is a beautiful sandy beach club and jetty.

“Hop on a local bus to Side’s historical centre where you’ll find the Temple of Apollo – one of those rare places where time seems to pause, set dramatically at the edge of the Mediterranean.”

A seven-night trip to TUI BLUE Side can be booked from £632pp – or £90pppn.

Trendy Lara

With its big swimming pool, plenty of waterslides and evening entertainment – the Trendy Lara is an ideal family destination.

Gary describes it as a “modern hotel” with a “great selection of restaurants, pools and activities for all ages”.

Lara Beach is also right on your doorstep.

A family of four heading abroad during the school holidays in August 2027 for a seven-night stay can book the Trendy Lara from £1,327pp – or £189pppn.

Liberty Lara

The Antalya hotel sits right by a beach – it comes with a few pools, a private pier and has plenty of food and drink spots.

Gary calls it a “beautiful hotel, with the most amazing service and food.”

It’s close to Lara Beach and is in a great central location perfect for exploring.

An all-inclusive seven-night break for two at the Liberty Lara can be booked from £530pp – or £76pppn.

TUI BLUE Grand Azur

Found in Marmaris, this hotel is another by the beach with a promenade just a short walk away.

It has a freshwater pool surrounded by sunloungers as well as a tennis court, and fitness classes.

Gary confessed it’s his “absolute favourite hotel in Turkey” with great customer service and a private beach.

An all-inclusive seven-night stay at the TUI BLUE Grand Azur starts from £615pp – or £87.85ppn.

WHILE Cornwall is one of the most popular destinations to visit in the UK – especially in the summer – there are still some spots that tourists are yet to discover.

As a Cornish local, I’ve seen it all, meaning I know just the places to avoid the crowds this summer.

Here are my top five spots to visit where you’ll spot more locals than holidaymakers.

1. Nanjizal Beach

Located on the south of Land’s End, Nanjizal Bay has been named by Sunsail as the second most secluded beach in the world.

Its rock pools and archways surround clear blue waters.

This beach truly does feel picture perfect. It’s remoteness, with no toilets, cafes or parking for miles, is what leaves room for its untouched natural beauty to shine.

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To get there, take a walk along the South West Coast path.

Make sure you check the tide times before you arrive, so you are not left with no beach in sight.

If you’ve walked this far, an extra 20 minute stroll to Sennen Cove feels worth it.

This is home to The Old Success Inn, selling great food with an even better view.

2. St Nectans Glen

Cornwall is not just expansive beaches, although social media does make it out to be. St Nectans Glen is the perfect spot for nature lover’s looking for something tranquil, serene and relaxing.

Located in a remote valley hidden behind the main road, this woodland walk is most known for its 60-feet tall waterfall.

When you reach it, it feels more like a fairytale than a typical English countryside. It is half an hour walk to get down their, so get your walking boots on.

Less than a 10 minute drive away is the village of Tintagel, home to the legendary King Arthur where you can learn a thing or two at the local shops, or even walk to Tintagel Castle and see the history for yourself.

3. Crackington Haven

One of my favourite hidden spots local to my village is Crackington Haven, just off the A39 between Boscastle and Bude.

Known for its rock pools and interesting coastal walks, the beach offers the best of both worlds: pebbled at the top with gorgeous white sands at the bottom.

If you’re a surfer, visiting Crackington is definitely one for you, considered the best surf around for locals, especially on big wave days.

Stop by The Coombe Barton Inn and enjoy some traditional pub grub or a perfect pint sat along the wall.

4. Fox Cove

Tucked behind the Roseland heritage coasts, Fox Cove is a secluded beach with access definitely on the more challenging side.

The path down to the cliff is long, but the spectacular views make it all worth your while.

It is a peak spot for swimmers and bodyboarders, but make sure you pay attention to the Cornwall Tide Times before you start your journey.

Just a short drive away, or a slightly longer coastal path hike, is the town of Padstow, amous for its Rick Stein and Paul Ainsworth restaurants.

5. The Lost Gardens of Heligan

For me, this wins bonus points for the nostalgia.

I have been going to The Lost Gardens of Heligan for years with my family, and some of my most fond memories of growing up in Cornwall took place here.

I’m not entirely sure how I would describe it simply,  but it is a combination of history, beautiful gardens, livestock and activities to keep the children entertained.

Entry is somewhat expensive, but if you are looking for a day out in Cornwall, this is a no brainer.

WITH 300 days of sunshine, golden beaches and beautiful hotels – the Algarve ticks all the boxes when it comes to summer holidays.

TUI travel agent Donna Connett is a huge fan and has been visiting the region for over 20 years after living there for a decade – so she knows all the best spots from its coastline to top restaurants.

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After living in the Portuguese region, Donna has been back almost 30 times and always heads to one place – Albufeira.

She describes it as “one of those places that just feels easy the second you arrive”.

The Algarve is a popular spot for Brits being just a few hours away from he UK – and of course, for its coastline.

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It has more than 150 beaches spread across 125 miles of coast.

One of Donna’s all-time favourite seaside spots, called Praia da Coelha, is just outside of Albufeira.

Donna told us: “It’s a bit tucked away, so you don’t get as many crowds, which is half the appeal. The huge cliffs and clear water make it feels a bit more special than the bigger, busier beaches. 

“It’s the sort of place I used to relax on during a day off when I was a rep, and it’s stayed a constant ever since.”

Something else that’s very important whilst on holiday, is finding good places to eat – and Donna has one specific go-to restaurant.

“I’ll always point you towards the Steak House O’Farnel. It’s a small, family-run place – nothing fancy, but just great food and a relaxed atmosphere.”

Donna continued: “It’s the kind of restaurant where you don’t feel rushed, you’re looked after, and you end up staying longer than you meant to. I’ve been going there for years and it’s still one of my first stops every time I’m back.” 

There are many beautiful places to see, so Donna has some off the beaten track suggestions too.

“Guia is definitely worth a visit, it’s known as the home of Chicken Piri Piri, and for good reason. 

“There’s plenty of authentic, local restaurants – they’re often busy and a bit no-frills in places, but the food feels properly local. Pair your “Frango à Guia” (Piri Piri Chicken) with fries and the traditional tomato and onion salad.”

It’s not all lazing about on beaches and getting a tan though, as holidaymakers can get active too.

The nearby Monchique Mountains is popular for mountain biking, jeep safaris, and small-group day tours.

Donna says it’s a great place to visit if you have the time: “It’s a completely different feel to the coast; cooler, quieter, a bit more traditional. You get a glimpse of what the Algarve’s like away from the beaches and resorts, such as a the historic spa village of Caldas de Monchique.”

If the Algarve has your attention Donna knows some incredible hotels to stay in too – and her favourite is the Tivoli Marina in Vilamoura.

The five-star resort is right on the beach near to shops, restaurants and bars with multiple swimming pools and a spa.

Donna said: “The Tivoli Marina in Vilamoura is probably the best I’ve stayed in. It’s got that ideal location between the marina and the beach, and it feels a bit more polished without being stuffy.

“I spent a lot of time in Vilamoura during my rep days, so I love going back now and having dinner and drinks around the marina – it’s definitely more relaxing now than when I was looking after guests!”

You can actually book a stay at the hotel with TUI, a seven-night holiday on a B&B basis from £1,361 per person including flights from Manchester Airport June 10.

Another deal is for Hotel Alisios – a seven-night holiday here on a B&B basis from £846 per person including flights from London Gatwick departing June 16.