I love sex with my partner but he is more interested in his metal detecting hobby
DEAR DEIDRE: WE have incredible sex but my partner makes it clear that metal detecting, his friends, job and love of horse racing will always…
First love has got better in bed and with age, now I am on the brink of leaving wife
DEAR DEIDRE: Reuniting with my first love and having an affair with her has shown me how unhappily married I am. I want to leave…
My wife cannot accept the other woman in my life – my ex
DEAR DEIDRE: My wife cannot accept that there’s another woman in my life - my ex-wife. She hates her for no apparent reason and keeps…
I was completely blindsided to find that my husband had been sexting his ex amid my battle with ADHD
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER getting my ADHD diagnosis, I hoped my husband and I could get our marriage back on track. But finding sexts on his…
My wife’s toy boy is young enough to be our son
DEAR DEIDRE: My wife was having an affair with a man the same age as our son. She says it meant nothing and was only…
I had a liaison with my university tutor – now he’s cyberflashing me
DEAR DEIDRE: When I was 18 I had an inappropriate relationship with my married university tutor – and ten years later he’s now catfished me…
My wife is sure my sister and cousin make jokes about her behind her back
DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife is adamant that both my sister and cousin make jokes about her behind her back. She believes they were texting each…
I love my girlfriend, but I have a guilty routine when she works nights
DEAR DEIDRE: I love my girlfriend but have got into a guilty routine whenever she works nights - it starts off with drinks and flirting…
New lover has been sleeping around with other men too – but she denies it
DEAR DEIDRE: IT turns out that the woman I’ve been dating is having sex with other men, too. I’m a man of 53 and I…
My marriage is sexless so should I move into the spare room?
DEAR DEIDRE: I’m so fed up with the lack of sex in my marriage that I’m planning to move into the spare room. My wife…
My husband doesn’t want another mouth to feed – how do I tell him I’m expecting?
DEAR DEIDRE: Less than a year after I gave birth, I have just discovered I’m pregnant again and I’m terrified to tell my husband. We…
Will my younger husband go off of me?
DEAR DEIDRE: I’m worried my husband will quickly go off me because of our age gap and how old-fashioned I’ll seem. He’s a younger man…
My wife secretly watches lesbian porn & I now realise she’s never initiated sex…is our relationship a lie?
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE found out that wife has secretly been watching lots of lesbian porn. Does this mean our whole relationship has been a…
I’m worried my husband is thinking about private lap dance he once had when we are intimate
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband confessed that he’d had a private lap dance. Now, whenever we are intimate, I reckon he must be thinking of her.…
Husband is not interested in sex – and he blames my knickers
DEAR DEIDRE: I EVENTUALLY agreed with my husband that opening up our marriage could inject some fun into the bedroom. But the reality is our…
I was seeing an amazing woman – then she ghosted me out of the blue
DEAR DEIDRE: FANTASTIC dates, amazing chemistry and terrific sex – I was so excited about a woman I was seeing. Then out of the blue…