I feel so small when I see well-endowed men pleasuring my girlfriend at swingers’ parties
DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I go to a swingers’ party with my girlfriend, I find myself staring at the other men and just wishing I could…
I’m loving wild one-night stands with men I meet online in my sixties and won’t give it up
DEAR DEIDRE: OTHER women my age keep themselves busy with walking clubs or book groups, but I’m having wild one-night stands with men I meet…
I fantasise about having sex with my stepsister after our antics as children… I feel so guilty and ashamed
DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T stop fantasising about having sex with my stepsister.As children, we would lock ourselves in the bathroom, take off our clothes and…
I’m an older woman’s booty call – the sex is incredible and she’s impossible to resist but I want so much more
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a male booty call for a woman who organises all the kids’ trips at the school where I work – but I want…
I’ve never admitted my foot fetish to anyone as I fear it’s ruining my chances at love
DEAR DEIDRE: SINCE I was a kid, I have been obsessed with women’s feet and shoes.I used to think it was harmless, but now I’m…
I started casually dating my cheating ex again, now I’m pregnant with his child – how can we be good parents together?
DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my ex again after he cheated on me was so painful and now it’s got even more complicated.I made it clear that…
I’m sick of still being my long-term lover’s sexy secret 12 months after he left his wife
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my long-term lover finally left his wife, I was thrilled. But I’m still his sexy secret 12 months on and I’m losing…
My husband is refusing to have an open marriage – so I’m forced to have bisexual affairs
DEAR DEIDRE: MY stuck-in-the-mud husband is refusing an open marriage – so I’m forced to have bisexual affairs.I’ve always been attracted to both men and…
Dating young widower was going well until we had sex – and now he’s very distant
DEAR DEIDRE: DATING a young widower was going so well – until we had sex.Since then, he’s been very distant, and now I feel used…
I’m convinced my long-distance boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex
DEAR DEIDRE: ALL the signs point to my long-distance boyfriend cheating on me, but I don’t want to believe it.I think he’s sleeping with his…
I am planning revenge on cheating boyfriend by seducing his best pal
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE hatched the perfect plan to get revenge on my soon-to-be ex.I’m going to tempt his best friend and have sex with…
I’m not allowed to go to partner’s son’s wedding – as ex has a problem with my skin colour
DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been left off the guest list at my partner’s son’s wedding because her ex has a problem with me being black.I’m a…
I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE met the most incredible man. He is the best lover, is considerate, adventurous and has an exciting life.I am ready to…
I acted out a lesbian porn scene for my boyfriend and am now confused as I was aroused
DEAR DEIDRE: MY BOYFRIEND thought I acted out lesbian porn for him but now I can’t get the woman I did it with out of…
My mental health has hit rock bottom eight months into my retirement
DEAR DEIDRE: EIGHT months into my retirement, my mental health has hit rock bottom.My wife and I are both in our 60s, with a lovely…
Surgery has ruined my sex life – I was not warned about the risk
DEAR DEIDRE: AN operation to treat my enlarged prostate has ruined my sex life.I wasn’t warned of the dangers and now at the age of…
My girlfriend is too much – she got drunk and hit me over the head
DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend is passionate and opinionated, which I love. I’ve never wanted a pushover for a partner.But lately I’ve found her too much.It…
I get jealous everytime my boyfriend looks at other women
DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my boyfriend looking at beautiful women makes me so mad.The problem is, I feel the same if I spot him checking out…
My mobile hairdresser has signalled she’d like to offer more than a head massage
DEAR DEIDRE: MY mobile hairdresser has made it very clear she would like to offer me more than a head massage and I’m so tempted…
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