I don’t know whether to stick with safe husband or amazing sex-addict lover
DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE met the most incredible man. He is the best lover, is considerate, adventurous and has an exciting life.I am ready to…
I acted out a lesbian porn scene for my boyfriend and am now confused as I was aroused
DEAR DEIDRE: MY BOYFRIEND thought I acted out lesbian porn for him but now I can’t get the woman I did it with out of…
My mental health has hit rock bottom eight months into my retirement
DEAR DEIDRE: EIGHT months into my retirement, my mental health has hit rock bottom.My wife and I are both in our 60s, with a lovely…
Surgery has ruined my sex life – I was not warned about the risk
DEAR DEIDRE: AN operation to treat my enlarged prostate has ruined my sex life.I wasn’t warned of the dangers and now at the age of…
My girlfriend is too much – she got drunk and hit me over the head
DEAR DEIDRE: MY girlfriend is passionate and opinionated, which I love. I’ve never wanted a pushover for a partner.But lately I’ve found her too much.It…
I get jealous everytime my boyfriend looks at other women
DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my boyfriend looking at beautiful women makes me so mad.The problem is, I feel the same if I spot him checking out…
My mobile hairdresser has signalled she’d like to offer more than a head massage
DEAR DEIDRE: MY mobile hairdresser has made it very clear she would like to offer me more than a head massage and I’m so tempted…
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The man I love is 20 years older and my dad says he’ll never accept him
DEAR DEIDRE: THE man I’m in love with is 20 years older than me, and my dad says he will never accept the relationship. Although I…
I told my boyfriend my fantasy is to watch him have sex with another woman – and now he’s confused
DEAR DEIDRE: PLAYING around one bedtime, my boyfriend asked me if I’d consider an open relationship. But when I admitted my fantasy, he was appalled…
Husband accuses me of dressing up for the school dads
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER years of feeling down about my appearance, I finally decided to make some changes to help my self-confidence. Yet instead of being…
An anonymous Facebook profile sent me compromising images of my wife
DEAR DEIDRE: THE nude photographs of my wife sent to my Facebook account from a stranger, made my stomach heave.Whoever sent the images used a…
All I want is another threesome but my wife isn’t convinced
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER my wife and I had an incredible threesome with my friend, I told her I’d like her to take him as a…
I’ve met an amazing man but he’s constantly blowing hot and cold
DEAR DEIDRE: THE guy I met on Grindr is great in bed, but he’s blowing hot and cold with the way he treats me.Although we…
My partner’s ex muscled her way onto a family holiday with him
DEAR DEIDRE: When my partner’s ex found out I wasn’t able to go on holiday with him and his kids, she muscled her way in…
Am I gay after I kissed a trans woman?
DEAR DEIDRE: The woman I picked up in my local pub turned out to be trans!We only kissed, and I had no idea, but now…
My partner walked out on me after I discussed her out-of-control shopping habits
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M concerned about my partner’s shopping habits.We’re both 60 and have been together for five years. When we got together, I had to…
My fiance has been cheating on me with his sister’s best friend
DEAR DEIDRE: After months of planning my wedding, I discovered that my fiance has been cheating on me with his younger sister’s best friend.He’s called…
I caught husband cheating with work colleague and I am struggling to forgive him
DEAR DEIDRE: MY husband has been having an affair with a woman half my age but insists it’s over and was “just about the sex”.It…
I love my wife but our sex life is lame
DEAR DEIDRE: I love my wife with all of my heart but I’ve had enough of our boring and tedious sex life. All I want…