I feel so small when I see well-endowed men pleasuring my girlfriend at swingers’ parties
DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I go to a swingers’ party with my girlfriend, I find myself staring at the other men and just wishing I could…
I’m loving wild one-night stands with men I meet online in my sixties and won’t give it up
DEAR DEIDRE: OTHER women my age keep themselves busy with walking clubs or book groups, but I’m having wild one-night stands with men I meet…
I started casually dating my cheating ex again, now I’m pregnant with his child – how can we be good parents together?
DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my ex again after he cheated on me was so painful and now it’s got even more complicated.I made it clear that…
I’m sick of still being my long-term lover’s sexy secret 12 months after he left his wife
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my long-term lover finally left his wife, I was thrilled. But I’m still his sexy secret 12 months on and I’m losing…
I’m in love with my boss’s husband but I can’t let our affair be exposed
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M deeply in love with my boss’s husband.We are having a passionate affair and I truly believe I’ve found the man of my…
I’m convinced my long-distance boyfriend is cheating on me with his ex
DEAR DEIDRE: ALL the signs point to my long-distance boyfriend cheating on me, but I don’t want to believe it.I think he’s sleeping with his…
I gave customer big discount by mistake and have been suspended
DEAR DEIDRE: HAVE I committed gross misconduct?I’m the manager of a shop and during the Christmas rush, I mistakenly gave a customer a 25 per…
I’m not allowed to go to partner’s son’s wedding – as ex has a problem with my skin colour
DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been left off the guest list at my partner’s son’s wedding because her ex has a problem with me being black.I’m a…
My mental health has hit rock bottom eight months into my retirement
DEAR DEIDRE: EIGHT months into my retirement, my mental health has hit rock bottom.My wife and I are both in our 60s, with a lovely…
I’m being torn apart by people I don’t know on social media
DEAR DEIDRE: PEOPLE I don’t know on social media have torn me apart. I have been bullied on social media for allegedly trolling when I commented…
Surgery has ruined my sex life – I was not warned about the risk
DEAR DEIDRE: AN operation to treat my enlarged prostate has ruined my sex life.I wasn’t warned of the dangers and now at the age of…
My husband has turned into the cruellest man in Britain ever since my health declined
DEAR DEIDRE: I MUST be married to the cruellest man in Britain. Since we got hitched he’s turned into someone I don’t recognise – someone…
I get jealous everytime my boyfriend looks at other women
DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my boyfriend looking at beautiful women makes me so mad.The problem is, I feel the same if I spot him checking out…
My mum is terrified of my sister who is making her life hell
DEAR DEIDRE: MY sister only speaks to our mum to criticise her. She makes life hell for both of us.I’m a 22-year-old single man. My…
Husband accuses me of dressing up for the school dads
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER years of feeling down about my appearance, I finally decided to make some changes to help my self-confidence. Yet instead of being…
I was completely blindsided to find that my husband had been sexting his ex amid my battle with ADHD
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER getting my ADHD diagnosis, I hoped my husband and I could get our marriage back on track. But finding sexts on his…
New lover has been sleeping around with other men too – but she denies it
DEAR DEIDRE: IT turns out that the woman I’ve been dating is having sex with other men, too. I’m a man of 53 and I…
Why is my child hurting his siblings?
DEAR DEIDRE: Our little boy has started to misbehave, hitting his younger brother and sister and lashing out at me and his mum. He’s eight…
I’m caring for my elderly mum who is scared to leave house – I’m tired & have medical issues, but my siblings won’t help
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER having a fall, my mum has completely lost her confidence. Even though she had a hip replacement, she is terrified it will…
My friend refuses to talk to me after I made comments about her daughter online – I can’t believe I hurt her
DEAR DEIDRE: UNINTENTIONALLY I have hurt a very dear friend and now she won’t speak to me. I can’t sleep and the guilt is killing…