I feel so small when I see well-endowed men pleasuring my girlfriend at swingers’ parties
DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I go to a swingers’ party with my girlfriend, I find myself staring at the other men and just wishing I could…
I fantasise about having sex with my stepsister after our antics as children… I feel so guilty and ashamed
DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T stop fantasising about having sex with my stepsister.As children, we would lock ourselves in the bathroom, take off our clothes and…
I’m an older woman’s booty call – the sex is incredible and she’s impossible to resist but I want so much more
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a male booty call for a woman who organises all the kids’ trips at the school where I work – but I want…
I’m sick of still being my long-term lover’s sexy secret 12 months after he left his wife
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my long-term lover finally left his wife, I was thrilled. But I’m still his sexy secret 12 months on and I’m losing…
I’m in love with my boss’s husband but I can’t let our affair be exposed
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M deeply in love with my boss’s husband.We are having a passionate affair and I truly believe I’ve found the man of my…
I want to cut toxic father out of my life – I won’t stand for criticism and lies
DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to cut my toxic father out of my life, but guilt is holding me back.I’m 40, and the eldest son of…
I’m not allowed to go to partner’s son’s wedding – as ex has a problem with my skin colour
DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been left off the guest list at my partner’s son’s wedding because her ex has a problem with me being black.I’m a…
My mental health has hit rock bottom eight months into my retirement
DEAR DEIDRE: EIGHT months into my retirement, my mental health has hit rock bottom.My wife and I are both in our 60s, with a lovely…
Surgery has ruined my sex life – I was not warned about the risk
DEAR DEIDRE: AN operation to treat my enlarged prostate has ruined my sex life.I wasn’t warned of the dangers and now at the age of…
My husband has turned into the cruellest man in Britain ever since my health declined
DEAR DEIDRE: I MUST be married to the cruellest man in Britain. Since we got hitched he’s turned into someone I don’t recognise – someone…
I get jealous everytime my boyfriend looks at other women
DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my boyfriend looking at beautiful women makes me so mad.The problem is, I feel the same if I spot him checking out…
The man I love is 20 years older and my dad says he’ll never accept him
DEAR DEIDRE: THE man I’m in love with is 20 years older than me, and my dad says he will never accept the relationship. Although I…
How can I help my depressed student daughter who is miles away
DEAR DEIDRE: Worrying about my depressed, drug-taking daughter is affecting my own mental health. She lives 200 miles away at university and I don’t know…
Why is my child hurting his siblings?
DEAR DEIDRE: Our little boy has started to misbehave, hitting his younger brother and sister and lashing out at me and his mum. He’s eight…
I’m caring for my elderly mum who is scared to leave house – I’m tired & have medical issues, but my siblings won’t help
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER having a fall, my mum has completely lost her confidence. Even though she had a hip replacement, she is terrified it will…
Everything’s going wrong in our home – the landlord won’t fix any of it
DEAR DEIDRE: THE list of broken and faulty things in our home gets longer and longer – but still the landlord never arrives. I’m a…
My ex is toxic – he’s now trying to poison my relationship with my children
DEAR DEIDRE: AFTER we recently separated following 19 years together, my ex-fiancé has been turning the children against me. We are both in our late…