I feel so small when I see well-endowed men pleasuring my girlfriend at swingers’ parties
DEAR DEIDRE: WHENEVER I go to a swingers’ party with my girlfriend, I find myself staring at the other men and just wishing I could…
I’m loving wild one-night stands with men I meet online in my sixties and won’t give it up
DEAR DEIDRE: OTHER women my age keep themselves busy with walking clubs or book groups, but I’m having wild one-night stands with men I meet…
I fantasise about having sex with my stepsister after our antics as children… I feel so guilty and ashamed
DEAR DEIDRE: I CAN’T stop fantasising about having sex with my stepsister.As children, we would lock ourselves in the bathroom, take off our clothes and…
I’m an older woman’s booty call – the sex is incredible and she’s impossible to resist but I want so much more
DEAR DEIDRE: I AM a male booty call for a woman who organises all the kids’ trips at the school where I work – but I want…
I started casually dating my cheating ex again, now I’m pregnant with his child – how can we be good parents together?
DEAR DEIDRE: SEEING my ex again after he cheated on me was so painful and now it’s got even more complicated.I made it clear that…
I’m sick of still being my long-term lover’s sexy secret 12 months after he left his wife
DEAR DEIDRE: WHEN my long-term lover finally left his wife, I was thrilled. But I’m still his sexy secret 12 months on and I’m losing…
I want to cut toxic father out of my life – I won’t stand for criticism and lies
DEAR DEIDRE: I WANT to cut my toxic father out of my life, but guilt is holding me back.I’m 40, and the eldest son of…
My late wife’s family are spoiling our children and it’s sending the wrong message
DEAR DEIDRE: HOW do you tell a well-meaning relative to back off?My wife died three years ago, leaving me a single dad to our twin…
I’m not allowed to go to partner’s son’s wedding – as ex has a problem with my skin colour
DEAR DEIDRE: I’VE been left off the guest list at my partner’s son’s wedding because her ex has a problem with me being black.I’m a…
I acted out a lesbian porn scene for my boyfriend and am now confused as I was aroused
DEAR DEIDRE: MY BOYFRIEND thought I acted out lesbian porn for him but now I can’t get the woman I did it with out of…
I need financial support from my daughter’s dad – but fear him demanding visiting rights
DEAR DEIDRE: FOR the past nine years, I have provided everything my daughter has needed.But it would be nice to have some financial support so…
The man I love is 20 years older and my dad says he’ll never accept him
DEAR DEIDRE: THE man I’m in love with is 20 years older than me, and my dad says he will never accept the relationship. Although I…
My mum is terrified of my sister who is making her life hell
DEAR DEIDRE: MY sister only speaks to our mum to criticise her. She makes life hell for both of us.I’m a 22-year-old single man. My…
Our adult son wants to pack up his life and travel – but wants me and his dad to fund it
DEAR DEIDRE: OUR son is keen to pack up the life he has here to travel, but he wants me and his dad to fund…
I’m sick of my spoilt son treating my home like a hotel
DEAR DEIDRE: I’M sick of the way my lazy and spoiled son treats me.He still lives at home but treats my home like a hotel.…
My wife cannot accept the other woman in my life – my ex
DEAR DEIDRE: My wife cannot accept that there’s another woman in my life - my ex-wife. She hates her for no apparent reason and keeps…
My ex-wife has made it impossible for me to have a relationship with our children
DEAR DEIDRE: When I separated from my now ex-wife she made it impossible for me to have any kind of relationship with my children. Now,…
New lover has been sleeping around with other men too – but she denies it
DEAR DEIDRE: IT turns out that the woman I’ve been dating is having sex with other men, too. I’m a man of 53 and I…
My husband doesn’t want another mouth to feed – how do I tell him I’m expecting?
DEAR DEIDRE: Less than a year after I gave birth, I have just discovered I’m pregnant again and I’m terrified to tell my husband. We…
Will my younger husband go off of me?
DEAR DEIDRE: I’m worried my husband will quickly go off me because of our age gap and how old-fashioned I’ll seem. He’s a younger man…