He accused her of being “greedy for food” and explained he had been furious as they ate.

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Diamond (@koolkartierr) shared the texts from her date on X, formally Twitter.

He revealed that he had one complaint about her that eclipsed their otherwise pleasant meal together.

“Honestly Diamond. You seem like [an] amazing woman but I don’t think we’re compatible,” he wrote.

He explained that his stomach turned after watching her eat.

“You ate the whole damn salad, which isn’t ladylike,” he added.

“Makes me feel like you’re greedy for food and I need a woman who knows when to stop eating.”

Her date said he didn’t think they would work out considering his lifestyle.

“You know I meal prep and go to the gym daily. I just feel like you’d be overweight in the near future,” he told her.

He noted that he had no other complaints about her.

“I still want to hang out but that bothered me. I almost exploded,” he said.

“I love your vibe and energy though. You’re perfect, it’s just that one thing plus it was our first date. You was [sup]posed to have butterflies [and] sh*t, how could you eat that much?”

Reddit user SoCold40 later shared a screenshot of her post, leading others to weigh in on her date’s behavior.

While it was only their first meeting, many commenters felt that it should be their last.

“A salad? He’s doing all this because she ate a salad? Just block him and move on. He sounds full of himself,” said one person.

Some thought that a healthy appetite was the opposite of an undesirable trait.

Makes me feel like you’re greedy for food and I need a woman who knows when to stop eating.

Diamond’s date

“A fine girl who puts down a whole rack of ribs is the dream though,” one Reddit user insisted.

Others felt her date’s texts posed a huge red flag.

“Something tells me this man has a LOT of opinions about what women should be doing,” someone else explained.

Many agreed that her date did her a favor by sharing his concern.

“She dodged that bullet and got a free salad. It’s a win,” another commenter pointed out.

“Also, if she ever speaks to this prize again, she should respond to anything he says with names of salad dressings and ingredients, absolutely deadpan,” they added.

“’How have [you] been?’ ‘Blue cheese.’ ‘How’s your job?’ ‘Creamy Vidalia.’ ‘Well, it’s been good seeing you.’ ‘Spinach, spinach,'” they joked.

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