HAVING been a tarot reader for nearly 30 years, love remains the enduring and priority topic that I discuss with clients.
I have used my tarot cards to give you a full love reading, for each star sign this Valentine’s, that will give you guidance whatever your love situation is right now. Are you ready?
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Aries
The Emperor: Be yourself and take charge
The Emperor, funnily enough, is YOUR sign’s card in the tarot so this is a strong message to BE YOURSELF. Don’t try to please, indulge, over-compromise or shape-shift to keep something going, start something up, or mend something you’ve lost. They either like you for you, or they do not.
If you’re single, then maybe another equally strong and vivacious Aries is coming your way this Spring. This is a person who mirrors your passion and intensity so things will never be dull, in fact they could get downright thrilling!
If you’re attached, then your sex life is ready for a lustful, animalistic shot in the arm this Valentine’s. Do something forward and bold that they will never expect from you! Take charge in the bedroom and lay out your fantasy, and tell them what to do. Open up a new realm of power play.
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Taurus
King of Wands: Passion is your purpose
The King of Wands is an adventurous, purposeful, passionate, and exciting character. This is who you’re playing this Valentine’s so it’s a nudge to spark it up, get lively, plan something exciting, and take some chances. What do you want to happen in your love life? MAKE IT HAPPEN. Set a purpose and take steps towards it.
If you’re single, then a charismatic, slightly older, warm and energetic Fire sign is heading your way- Aries, Leo or Sagittarius. This is going to be a very physical attraction, a highly charged encounter that enlivens you, body mind and soul.
If you’re attached, then take your partner on an adventure- be it a dirty weekend, day out, bedroom escapade or holiday. Get outside of ordinary reality and set a scene that feels adventurous and playful. Sex toys are welcome allies in spicing things up, explore this realm for an immediate kick start.
Gemini
The Star: Make a wish
The Star is the tarot’s dream come true card, a literal wish pass from the Universe, granting you your heart’s desire. Gemini, what is that? NOW is the time to manifest your dream lover / love life. Visualise it powerfully and in detail, create an affirmation that encapsulates it, say it daily and take steps to create, design, live your dream love life… it’s ALL possible and it happens NOW.
If you’re single, then a fellow Air element Aquarius is on the cards. This person is a dream match for you- intellectually and emotionally. You ‘get’ each other and feel immediately attracted. This could be ‘the one’…
If you’re attached, then bring your fantasy side into the bedroom. You’re known for having a big imagination, what goes on in there is better than anything they could see on a screen! So, share the story, role plays, techniques, interplay, and intimate touching you think about in your wilder dreams. Everything you wish for can be made reality, Gemini.
Cancer
Five of Swords: Get to the root cause of what’s going on
The Five of Swords is about tension, conflict, and disagreement. It suggests there is a fly in your love ointment that needs identifying and fishing out, at root cause level. Don’t carry on arguing or sulking or hoping for change… get into the nitty gritty and find out what is causing the issue, whether this is with a partner or simply within your own psyche and self image.
If you’re single, you might meet an Air sign (Gemini, Libra or Aquarius) who absolutely infuriates you initially. Your first impression could well be negative, you might meet during an argument or stressful situation. Don’t write them off! Give them a second chance.
If you’re attached, then your sex life could be defined by some angry break-up / make-up sex this Valentine’s. A powerful ‘can’t live with you or without you’ tussle that is as raw and intense as any encounter you’ve ever had. Maybe it’s the sex that’s kept you together? Maybe the sex can help to heal whatever has been going wrong?
Leo
The World: Turn the page, you’re ready for the next chapter
The World is the tarot’s final card and therefore it can represent endings… albeit ones which are the embryos of new beginnings. In a relationship reading it definitely hints you’re reaching the end of the current phase or chapter, be that an era of a relationship or singledom. Don’t fear the future, it’s going to be better than the present. You are ready to move onwards and upwards, don’t cling to where you are.
If you’re single, then you’re about to encounter an inspiring, ambitious, sophisticated and globally connected Capricorn. This is someone you can imagine building that lusted-after ‘power couple’ vibe with, they are more than a match for you. In fact, even better, a challenge!
If you’re attached, then you’re ready for a new routine, foreplay game, level of intimacy and imagination. Things are good (Leos are very adept lovers) but they could be even better. You want to reinvent your sex life to suit where you’re both at and what you both want. Do some homework! What’s hot, what’s new, what’s working for others, what’s suited to your dual needs… introduce fresh thinking.
Virgo
The Moon: You are a love enigma, solve the puzzle!
The Moon is about secrets, illusions, mysteries, and intuitions. It suggests that there’ll be revelations, epiphanies, and new insights heading your way this Valentine’s about your love life. Be nosey! Be provocative! Ask questions, question yourself, probe, analyse, validate, discuss. Get to the bottom of who you are in a relationship, what you want, and what has brought you here. You are a romantic enigma (one thing on the surface… another underneath), so solve your own code.
If you’re single, then a loving, loyal, sexual, and moody Cancerian lover is due to enter your realm and change everything. They are as emotional as you are practical. They bring the heart to your ideas, they put the feeling back into your realm. Let them ‘soften’ you.
If you’re attached, then you and your partner might benefit from blindfolding each other and taking turns to explore each other’s body and hot spots. Find new ways of creating shivers and thrills through your touch and attention. Discover what can turn them on when it’s just you doing the work, and vice versa. Unlock your pleasure zones.
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Libra
Temperance: Things are changing
Temperance is about finding certainty and grounding energy after a long phase of change and interference and new news. You have felt unsettled in your love life, but this Valentine’s marks the beginning of the ‘new normal’ and you feeling much more at home with how things are. You have changed a lot in the past year, and so too have the dynamics of your romances and intimate relationships.
If you’re single, then expect to be swept off your feet by a Sagittarius, a lively and outspoken character who is perhaps not your usual ‘type’ on paper! You are different, so your partner choice is going to change too!
If you’re attached, then play around with the idea of letting each other take turns in leading the action in the bedroom- what, when, and where. Perhaps you take turns in worshipping and serving each other’s deepest desires and needs. Perhaps you create new scenarios or environments to be stimulated by. To and fro, back and forth, get used to switching leads.
Scorpio
Nine of Wands: You can’t change what you won’t acknowledge
The Nine of Wands brings healing and progressive energy to your relationship realm- mending bridges, fixing damage, healing wounds, overcoming stagnations or blocks. Nothing is as hard or onerous as you fear. Everything can be fixed… but you have to acknowledge the issue/s first. So, make the next two months a phase of healing and repair. You will be amazed what is restored.
If you’re single, you will find yourself sought out by a caring, compassionate and helping Earth sign (Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn) who fast becomes an ally as well as a romantic interest. This person is on your side, backs you up 100%, and this feels so wonderful.
If you’re attached, then talk to your partner about the things you’ve learned, changed, or discovered about yourself sexually. Share the journey you’ve both been on, from losing your virginity to now (without dredging up exes and past lives…), focusing on what has changed in your desires and needs. Sharing this can help you re-align and recalibrate your sex life to suit both of you.
Getting over an ex?
Kerry King said: “Valentine’s is really tough if you’re enduring the aftermath of a painful breakup”.
I surveyed my clients about their experiences with coping with heartbreak and discovered the following…
The majority (40%) said it took them up to 1 year to get over a painful breakup. 27.5% said if it’s ‘the one’ then they’ve never gotten over it.
The three things that bothered people the most after a breakup were:
- Wondering if they were ever loved by that person
- Feeling rejected
- Missing their company
The top three emotions associated with the aftermath of a painful breakup were grief (70%), numbness (67.5%) and anger (40%).
The three worst things you can do after a painful breakup:
- Obsessing about the ex’s activity and stalking them on social media
- Jumping into a new relationship straightaway
- Messaging and calling the ex
Top three positive and healing things you can do after a painful breakup:
- Starting a healing, pampering self care routine
- Socialising and meeting new people
- Booking a holiday or something to look forward to
Sagittarius
Three of Swords: Once bitten, twice shy
The Three of Swords is a card of betrayal, cruelty, relationship wounds and turmoil. You have been treated badly in your past and perhaps those wounds still open and itch now and again, perhaps it still feels very raw and tender. This Valentine’s is about healing, processing, releasing those pent-up feelings and looking to the future.
If you’re single, then this card is a strong signal to sever ties with people from the past who’ve hurt you (but still linger in your inbox). Cut off the toxic, game-playing, unavailable connections that hold you back or down. Total liberation from the past is the goal. And then… maybe… an interesting Air sign (Gemini, Libra, Aquarius) will emerge.
If you’re attached, it’s possible there’s something you need to discuss, change, or remove from your relationship with your partner that gets in the way of enjoying the sex life you both yearn for. Maybe it’s a habit, a scheduling issue, an outside influence, a circumstance or environmental problem. Whatever creates distance, difficulty, or tension between you physically… talk about it and find a solution.
Capricorn
The Wheel of Fortune: A powerful omen of transformation
All change, Capricorn! The Wheel of Fortune is a powerful omen of transformation. And your love life will be the focus of these renewing energies and unseen forces. It will all end well, so don’t worry, but also don’t be surprised if it’s a bumpy ride at times. You can’t make an omelette without breaking some eggs, right?
If you’re single, then a host of star signs could be queuing to get closer to you (and maybe you’re dallying with more than one!)- Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius. Maybe this is where all the transformation energy is focused, in choosing the right suitor for you right now.
If you’re attached, then shake it all up! Make Valentine’s the season of experimentation. Do a bit of research and pick up new ideas that appeal to you or you think your partner will go for, and bring them into the bedroom (or wherever you’re at it). The theme is ‘change’. Be different and feel differently. Maybe you make a new rule: for Valentine’s, each sexual encounter will include four new things! Can you keep it up?
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Who is Kerry Ward?
Kerry King, the tarot queen, uses tarot and star sign wisdom to create inspiring forecasts and insights, with nearly 30 years fortune telling experience, and many happy clients all over the world.
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Aquarius
Seven of Cups: Imagination is the key
If you can dream it, you can do it. The Seven of Cups is about imagination, creativity, manifesting what lies in your fantasies, and that applies across the board in your love life- from sex to social life, family commitments to date night. Tell them what you want. Bring your visions to the real world. Let loose your thoughts and ideas.
If you’re single, you’re in for a treat with a very artistic and romantic Water sign (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio). They bring out your imaginative side, they take it seriously, they encourage you to open up and share ides. And this feels so good.
If you’re attached, then your sex life will become a realm of adventure, play, and new ideas. Sex is a love language, it’s a means of expression, and you can show how you’re feeling, what you desire, who you’d like to be etc through your lovemaking. Bring costume, character, play, fantasy, toys, storytelling, and performance to the bedroom.
Pisces
The Hermit: Focus on yourself (for a change)
So, The Hermit IS a symbol of solitude and alone time. Maybe you feel you’re ready for that? Maybe you are.
However, it can also be a nudge to focus more on YOU in the relationships you’re in. What do you want, need, desire, prioritise, not like, feel tense about etc… Speak up. You are such a giver, maybe it’s time to shift the balance of focus and power.
If you’re single, then your soul mate star sign, Virgo, is hovering and waiting for your attention. This will be someone who comes across as shy, studious, clever and maybe a little aloof. They long for your gaze. So, pay attention to the quiet ones.
If you’re attached, then you should put yourself centre-stage in your lovemaking. Ask them to worship you, ask them to pleasure you and tell them what you like, show them what you like. Make Valentine’s all about sharing your current fantasies, desires, and pleasures (they can take a turn after).