DEAR DEIDRE: I HAVE hatched the perfect plan to get revenge on my soon-to-be ex.
I’m going to tempt his best friend and have sex with him and when my cheating, lying boyfriend finds out, I’ll let him know that I was simply giving him a taste of his own medicine.
I am 24, my boyfriend is 30 and we have been together for three years.
He was my first proper boyfriend, so I was probably quite naive.
When he said he was working late or going away with the lads for weekends, I believed him.
It turned out he was cheating on me with loads of other girls.
Of course, I wanted to ditch him immediately, but this wouldn’t properly punish him.
I have discovered his secret social media account, one where he doesn’t let on he has a girlfriend and has the time of his life without me.
He is always showing snaps of himself draped over countless girls.
I want to hurt him like he hurt me — and going to bed with his mate would do the trick.
His friend is really fit and I know my ex looks up to him.
I have dreamt up a plan. His friend works in a restaurant, so I will go there alone in my sexiest outfit like I’m meeting someone for a date.
When no one shows, I’ll make out that I’ve been stood up and ask his mate to walk me home.
Once we’re at my house, I’ll take him in for sex.
I know word will get back to my boyfriend, and I’ll finally feel I’ve had the last laugh. Then I’ll be able to move on.
My friends say my plan is nuts but just thinking about it boosts my confidence.
DEIDRE SAYS: I understand why you’re longing for revenge. Your boyfriend took advantage of your trusting nature, and you feel like he made a fool of you.
But your plan is almost certain to backfire.
Even if your ex’s friend does have sex with you, your sense of victory will be short lived.
And if he turns you down out of respect to your ex, you will feel more rejection. Do you want that?
Your best move now is to focus on yourself and this brand new year.
Break up with this man who is causing you so much hurt and block him. His photos are holding you back.
It’s natural to feel low after discovering his shoddy behaviour so take care of yourself and spend time with your friends.
In time, you will feel ready to get excited about your future instead.
I’m sending you my support pack, Addictive Love, to help you break this cycle for good.
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