A WOMAN from the traveller community has revealed the strict set of rules she grew up with.
Trewley Precious, from the UK, took to social media to share the long list of rules in her traveller household from getting glammed up to not being around men.
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She said: “Now, one of the biggest rules in the house was the girls always had to be glam, always has to look presentable, no matter her age.”
Trewley recalled how her mum was putting make-up on her at the young age of seven – and that’s not all.
She revealed she also got acrylic nails done at the age of 11 and her mum even took her for a spray tan at nine years old.
When Trewley was younger curfews were also very important to stick to and going out with friends on her council estate wasn’t straight forward.
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The blonde beauty revealed if she were to go out with friends her parents would sit outside the garden and keep a close eye on them all.
She added: “They wanna know your mum, your dad, your grandparents, your auntie, where you live in this state, how long you lived here for, what’s your occupation.
“They start questioning you like they’re the Old Bill.”
Trewley also revealed she was not allowed to have a boyfriend or drink until the age of 18 (which is the legal age in the UK), if she went out with friends her dad would drop her off and pick her up as well as test her breathe to see if she had been drinking.
Boys in the house were also a no-go unless it was family.
She revealed that if her brother’s friends came over or her dad’s the women had to leave the room.
Trewley added: “The women, automatically, no matter if you’re in the middle of a film, if you’re ill on the sofa, regardless, you automatically get up, you ask if they want a drink.
“If they say no, you leave. If they say yes, you make them a drink and then you leave. You can’t be in the same rooms.”
Last but not least in the strict rules she had to live by, Trewley said her mum was up at 4am cleaning on a Sunday and all of the girls had to get up at the same time and help out.
She claimed that every traveller household was different in the rules they set their children.
Traditions in the gypsy/traveller communities
Nomadic lifestyle: Traditionally, many travellers maintain a nomadic lifestyle, living in caravans and moving frequently. This mobility is a core aspect of their identity, reflecting a deep connection to freedom and independence.
Strong family bonds: Family is central to traveller culture. Extended families often live and travel together, providing a strong support network. Marriages and social events are significant community affairs, reinforcing familial ties.
Distinct Language: Many travellers speak Shelta, also known as Cant or Gammon, a distinct language that mixes elements of Irish, English, and other languages. This language serves as a cultural marker and a means of private communication within the community.
Religious practices: The traveller community often follows Roman Catholicism, with religious festivals and milestones like baptisms, communions, and weddings being particularly significant. However, individual beliefs and practices can vary widely.
Unique celebrations: Events such as horse fairs and traditional weddings are major social gatherings for travellers. These occasions are marked by elaborate preparations, vibrant attire, and communal participation.
The clip has since gone viral with over 470,000 views and 44,000 likes on her TikTok account @trewleyprecious.
People were quick to comment their thoughts on her upbringing.
One person wrote: “Except from being glam These are genuinely the same rules for me and I’m not even from a gypsy household.”
Another commented: “So true I am a traveller and I was eight when I got nails done.”
“Do you think you’ll bring up your children with all the same rules or just some of them,” penned a third.
“Deffo rules I wouldn’t enforce on my children as u grow up with judgement or guilt & the men don’t? as they have different rules but yes loads I do agree with,” replied Trewley.
Meanwhile a fourth said: “I think this is right, in my opinion.”
“This was sooooo interesting,” claimed a fifth.
Someone else added: “This is so interesting, I love learning about other cultures.”
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