They ran into many planning struggles as a throuple, but it was all worth it for their beachside wedding.
Husband and wives Aaron, Rachael, and Kasey (@triadandtrue) are three people in one loving relationship.
Aaron and Rachael were originally married to each other and proposed to their girlfriend Kaset in 2022.
Since the proposal, their love has continued to grow with adventures and romance.
The triad shared some of their wedding planning struggles in a TikTok video, which included putting together their unconventional website.
“We’ve been building our wedding website, and we found out very quickly that not all sites are created equal, especially when planning a wedding for three people,” they explained in a voiceover.
None of them were perfect for what they were looking for, so they documented their triad trial and error process to find the right fit.
The polyamorous couple first used a site called Zola.com, which was an immediate no because the templates only allowed people to put in two names.
“It was a little disheartening at first when we realized that most of the wedding invitation builders and websites we came across catered to only two-person relationships,” they wrote in the video caption.
Next, they tried the popular bridal company TheKnot.com, which almost won and presented correctly, despite a few technical issues.
After another look, it “looked weird” and they moved on to the last and final option.
They revealed what their wedding website looked like through WithJoy.com.
It was a “nice, beautiful website” with “no weird monograms,” all of their names on it, pictures as a trio, and additional details.
They admitted in the video caption that their inclusivity and LGBTQIA+ templates got them excited.
Viewers expressed their outrage about the limited options in the comments.
“That’s so ridiculous that most websites are not inclusive like that. But I’m glad you found a site that works for y’all!” one commented.
“Love WithJoy! That’s where we made our wedding website too!” another wrote
They revealed in another video that they had their triad union ceremony on November 11, 2023.