I was seeing an amazing woman – then she ghosted me out of the blue

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DEAR DEIDRE: FANTASTIC dates, amazing chemistry and terrific sex – I was so excited about a woman I was seeing.

Then out of the blue she ghosted me.

I am 20 and met this woman online.

We went on two great dates.

On the third, we stayed at her mum’s, where she was house-sitting, and enjoyed the best sex I’d ever had.

Since then she has come up with every excuse to avoid meeting me again.

I wondered if there was a new man in her life, which she denied.

Now I’ve been blocked on everything and I feel so stupid, low and depressed.

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DEIDRE SAYS: From what you have said about her, it’s possible she may not have been truthful with you.

Please do not feel stupid, this isn’t your fault.

Ghosting someone with no explanation is the coward’s way out, so this woman did not deserve your company.

Take your time to recover and when you feel stronger, get back out there and have fun.

Read my support pack Mend Your Broken Heart to help you move on.

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