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When Melanie Law’s life depended on having her breasts removed, she wasn’t the least bit concerned about her appearance. But strangers and even health professionals made her feel like she should be.

“I was asked what my husband thought,” Ms Law said.

“My surgeon was worried about my mental health — if I wasn’t going to proceed with reconstruction, she was worried I’d be self-conscious.”

After reading thorough the information provided to her, she chose to undergo a double mastectomy and to remain flat-chested.

“At the time, I felt like my surgeon was questioning my decision and that I was making the wrong decision in her eyes,” she said.

Scars from a mastectomy
Melanie Law says she is grateful for all the things she’s able to do rather than worrying about appearance. (ABC news: Supplied)

While she’s certain it was the right decision, she said in hindsight she chose “unknowingly” because she wasn’t fully informed about the consequences of all options.

“At the time I was reactive because I just had enough,” she said.

Ms Law chose the option with the shortest surgery time and smallest chance of recurrence.

“I wanted to get out of the medical system because I had five months of every day either having phone calls, appointments, procedures, treatments,” she said.

Ms Law said she only found out important information after surgery — like having both breasts removed meant she didn’t have to take a strong course of medication used for breast cancer treatment for up to a decade.

‘Flat and fabulous’ community launches national study

Ms Smith has joined two other women from the “flat and fabulous” community to help launch a national study into breast surgery options, outcomes and resources offered ahead of a mastectomy.

Breast cancer survivor Joanna Atzori said while she was supported by her surgeon in her choice to remain flat, anecdotally the experience was rare within the breast cancer community.

woman smiling at camera in house hallway

Joanna Atzori proudly identifies as “flat and fabulous” after undergoing a double mastectomy. (ABC News: Amy Sheehan )

“We’ve heard some horror stories about women being told that they might be aesthetically unpleasing if they don’t have breasts,” she said.

“Some of the comments that we’ve heard, include, ‘Maybe you should go and ask your husband or partner what they think’.”

She said women should be offered chest-inclusive options with equal weighting ahead of their mastectomies — both reconstruction and flat closure, which is when women choose not to have implants or breasts reconstructed from tissue from other parts of the body.

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