The 45-year-old shared the heartbreaking news in an Instagram post for baby loss charity Tommy’s to raise awareness and provide support for others.
Simon wrote: “All I wanted was to get my wife through it, I didn’t really have the time to grieve myself.”
Prior to welcoming their daughter Cyan by a traumatic C-section in 2021, Ayshen had two miscarriages and a failed round of IVF.
The couple decided to try for another baby earlier this year when Cyan was two.
Simon continued: “Ayshen had her third miscarriage at home. She didn’t feel pregnant anymore, I think we both knew what was happening, but you try and stay positive even though you’re pretty much 100 percent it’s not going to work out for you.”
Ayshen, 43, explained: “At home the pain was brutal so we decided to go to hospital but, as I went to the toilet before we set off, everything came out and the pain eased. We went anyway but the queue at A&E was so long I just wanted to go home, I was exhausted and there was nothing they could do.”
Following the loss, the couple checked with their IVF clinic and discovered they still had five frozen embryos remaining.
Two were implanted into Ayshen but the outcome was unsuccessful.
The couple are determined to increase the size of their family and will try to conceive naturally until the end of this year.
If that doesn’t happen, they will turn to the three remaining frozen embryos they have left.
Meanwhile Simon has urged others to speak to someone if they are going through the same heartache.
He said: “Please don’t go through it alone and in silence.’
“Sometimes it’s about admitting what you cannot do. You can’t fix it but you can be there and listen. Find a way to cope with your own emotions, whether that’s a beer with a mate or a walk.”
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