In fact, according to a study by Stonewall, over half of LGBTQIA+ people have experienced depression, while three in five say they’ve experienced anxiety. It’s why Hinge has teamed up with GAY TIMES to answer a NFAQ (Not-so Frequently Asked Question) in recognition of Mental Health Awareness Week (May 15-May 21). 

Beginning in 2001, the week is an opportunity for people all over the country to come together and tackle the stigma that still surrounds mental health. It also gives everyone, including the LGBTQIA+ community, a chance to help better understand their own mental health as well as that of others. 

Mental Health Awareness Week provides the space to address important questions about mental health and connection. In the LGBTQIA+ community, dating can sometimes bring feelings of anxiety and questions about how other daters will receive us.  For example, one query that arose was: “I don’t always feel queer enough. Any advice for handling that anxiety?” To answer this NFAQ, Hinge’s Love and Connection Expert and licensed therapist Moe Ari Brown provided their expertise.

“I’m no stranger to not feeling queer enough,” Moe says. “After five years on testosterone, I don’t always feel as visibly queer as I used to.” 

That being said, Moe has learned some valuable lessons during that time. 

“I’ve sat with so many people in therapy who are feeling the same way,” he says. “The question usually comes down to whether or not we belong. And the answer is yes, you absolutely do.”