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BECOMING a parent may leave you feeling like you have to live up what others think you should be doing.

From only ever talking about babies to dressing how they think a mum should dress like.

Frankie revealed on TikTok that she gets dress coded because she is a mum3

Frankie revealed on TikTok that she gets dress coded because she is a mumCredit: TikTok/@_justmefrankie
Frankie, 40, looks 'amazing' in her tight fitted dress3

Frankie, 40, looks ‘amazing’ in her tight fitted dressCredit: TikTok/@_justmefrankie

These are the things which many parents have been faced with.

Social norms are shared standards of acceptable behaviour by groups – but who makes up the rules anyway?

Frankie Lynne, 40, and is a mum who has been told that she should be “embarrassed” of the way she dresses. 

In a video she shared on her TikTok account _justmefrankie she revealed how she’d prefer to dress as a mum.

I'm a curvy woman - my hack lets you wear bikinis when the dress code says no
I'm a fashion fan & you need to run to Primark for the new Zara bodysuit dupe

However, there are negative comments she has to bat off every time. 

In the video, Frankie wrote a quote from a previous hateful comment that she has received. 

It read: “You’re a 40 year old mother, you should be embarrassed of yourself!”

She first starts the video wearing glasses and an oversized cardigan.

She flaunted her in a tight fitted black dress3

She flaunted her in a tight fitted black dressCredit: TikTok/@_justmefrankie

Frankie then ditches the glasses, puts her hair down and slips into a tight fitting black dress

Thousands of people rushed to her comments section to share their support. 

One wrote: “There’s 20 year old’s out there who would be jealous of how absolutely gorgeous you are.” 

Another added: “Simply lovely and very beautiful.” 

A third mum said: “I’m sorry how (should) we 40 years young should act like then. You look amazing by the way. Do you.” 

A fourth simply stated: “You’re a 40yr (SIC) old mum, you should be PROUD of yourself!” 

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