I’m a 25-year-old woman and she is 24.
We have been together for three years and I really love her.
She used to be a call girl when she was studying but stopped when we got together.
We are finding money tough.
She said it doesn’t mean anything and it would be even better if I got involved too.
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She said we’d make really good money if we offered ourselves as a pair.
I’ve refused. I told her that I would never be comfortable prostituting myself.
What can I do?
DEIDRE SAYS: Stick to your guns about not doing it yourself.
And explain that if she goes back to being a prostitute, she will damage your relationship.
Look at other ways to earn and economise.
If she doesn’t love you enough to respect your feelings, this relationship doesn’t have much future.
My support packs Debt Worries and Relationship MOT will help you.